Just wondering if anyone knows any good books to read on leadership skills, and more importantly dominance and taking control of situations...?

Have you read the 48 Laws of Power? This a good read imo. Some of the things listed have been used by many a leader and to a certain degree some PUA's. It teaches how you can gain and keep control of a person or situation.

There's another book written about the laws of seduction. At the moment the name seems to escape me. Start with that book though. You'll definitely have a different outlook on life once you're through it.

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The book I was referring to earlier is written by the same author (Robert Greene) It's titled " The Art of Seduction". Probably better in relation to the forum at hand, but I personally enjoyed the laws of power more. Hope that helps.