ok im a black guy, not reli tall, around 5"8, athletic, i guess im good lookin cuz i get girls aftr me all the time.

when its not concerning picking girls up, im the most confident person ull ever meet, i used to do public speaking and won the county competitions, but i didn like the pressure it put on me and i dropped out for the national competition.. our team lost in the 1st round without me

ive got quite an ego on me and im so scared of getting it crushed.

recently exchanging emails with this hb8, i asked her if shed tell me where she worked so id visit but she ignored me flat.. it kinda bothered me.

and theres this other hb9 at my college (high school in america) who onced looked at me and i looked away as soon as possible... but then iv pulled off some amazing feats without knowledge of this material

i once got this hb8 in bed when id known her for 2 days.. she was from another country and didn previously know me


i put it down to luck.. maybe she was jus one of those girls.

sorry to brag but iv got everything a pua might wish for.. friendly looks, a great physique, intelligence, and iv got alpha male qualities.. when i speak.. everyone listens

iv taken up multiple leadership roles and i know how to keep people under me.., i instill this by constantly making fun of people, i guess thats why people choose not to go against me in fear of being roasted. arghhh i hate it about myself, i cnt control the hate filled comments lol. iv noticed it gets girls liking me, i dont reli understand. i jus cant apply it deliberatly

almost all my qualities leave me.

iv got goals and im going to state them, i hope you guys help me achieve them.

goal 1: not to be afraid of approaching girls.. i do approach them but with the pulse of a rodent

goal 2: see a girl i want, and get her no matter what!

goal 3: put my ego aside and not care if i get rejection

goal 4: to be one of the best pua's

goal 5: to be in control of my character and act upon rational thought, i think the routine based system of pick up will help me achieve this. i just want to be able to do exactly the right thing and say exactly the right thing.


iv read lots of material since its my summer holiday and i do nothing, as for my social life.. its terrible.. im those people whos active at college and does nothing at home. maybe people dont like me as much as they let on. LOL i dont reli care about being liked.. i just wanna have a good social life and get as many women as i can... at 17, this is my time!!


PLEASE HELP!!!

Alright. Step one: learn how to write in full sentences. This is important for two reasons. The first is that it will make you sound more intelligent and will aid you in forming sentences while out in the field. The second is that it makes you seem less like a retarded school-boy trying to learn pick-up.

The reason your natural qualities leave you when you're attempting to apply them consciously is the same reason boys who learn all of this material can't apply it when in the field. You're in your own head. You aren't paying attention to the interaction, you are paying attention to your thoughts. You're over-analyzing. You're not being as natural as you could be. You're worried that something is going to screw you up, and that worry telegraphs to your target.

The only solution is practice. Every day. Walk up to random people and talk to them. Ask them strange questions, expecting a response. Do one of the stupid newbie missions you see around the forums. Talk to people every day, and pay attention to the interaction. I would suggest taping the conversations and listening to them later. And when you learn something about your natural interactions with people, practice what you've learned until you have it mastered.

It's like when you're practicing for your public speaking stints. You have to stand in front of a mirror until your expression is exactly right. You have to make sure every gesture and nuance is perfect before you get up there and do it for real. In pick-up, the mirror are practice interactions. You have to talk to people constantly and gauge their reactions, and learn how to calibrate yourself on the go.

Goal One: Approach girls. Feel the fear, do it anyway. Then do it again. And again.

Goal Two: Never going to happen. You might be able to hit five-for-five when you've got some experience under your belt, but I can't think of a single person on this forum that can (let me know if I'm wrong). One in three is a much more attainable goal.

Goal Three: See goal one. Then go and do a newbie mission. Then see goal one.

Goal Four: How about you worry about being a _good_ pick-up artist before you worry about being one of the best? I don't want to say your goals are crap or anything, but a few of them seem a little less than realistic.

Goal Five: This is where that practice thing comes in again. If you can, find a knowledgeable wing, or a willing pivot, and do a lot of role-playing with them. Get yourself calibrated until your speech and body-language are perfect.

Hope that's helped. It's one of my longest posts in weeks...

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monkey you typed that shit before i could!

thanks man thats really helped, what i did was, this girl approached me asking me if i wanted a job. so her job was to approach strangers and ask them. i offered to help her and i used some of the tricks iv picked up from the forum, she wasnt that attractive so i didnt bother to take her number, but i also approached a few people and asked for their details.

i know my goals are far fetched, but if i dont set high goals then if i fall short, then ill fall way short of it instead of quite close.

thanks again