Hey guys i've been more of the answering type the last couple weeks and have decided to see if anyone could help me with my krytonite girl. I call her my krytonite girl cuz i simply am very attracted to her. A little backround on myself may help ya give advice. I'm 20 years old; Canadian (legal), go out to bars about 3 times a week. I've been working onmy game for about a year now. Had some good success, I'm always looking to improve my game. I have gotten my AA to a minial now and can prettym uch open most groups without much problem. But recently i've been seeing this girl at every bar ive been going to, and franqly she's seductively amazinggly wow haha ..but ya i've learned over my past year that you jsut need to believe that there is no girl out of your league- jsut go for it; and I think she is interested cuz she is always giving proximity and last time at a bar my AFC friend i was telling about how sexy this girl is leans in to my kryptonite as were walking by and says my friend behind me thinks your hot...now i had no idea what he said to her until he told me later on...well she looked back andsmiled at me and gigled a bit, which i ahd no clue why she was doing that at the time...but ya lol...so we go inside and i start dancing with some friends and she comes pretty much right up to me and was dancing with her friend, and i know she was lokiing over a couple times..now i know that all the signs are there and i could probly go for it with no worries, but I simply couldn't do it....i'm not loking for people to say oh goshh she's giving you all the IOI's - go for it...i'm looking for deeper stuff i guess cuz this one is my kryptonit...

Thanks for reading and looking forward to some great advice

Goodluck

F|y

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"How old are you?... Old enough to party "

Ok im confused. I dont really know what you are asking. All i saw was that you somehow were able to build an attraction with the girl, so the next step would be to build comfort, and seduce. So i dont know what your waiting for or what magic advice you want given to you. Just talk to her, run your game, and do what you gotta do. I dont really know what else you want.

This is really an inner game issue. A lot of guys have trouble picking up women that they feel are really high quality. The problem is that sub-consciously they don't feel like they deserve a really high quality woman, so they freeze up and don't know what to do, or even find some other way to sabotage themselves sub-consciously. Most guys find it easy to get women that they perceive to be at their same level of quality or below, but have no success whatsoever with women they perceive to be higher than them. Unfortunately there is no quick fix to get yourself to believe you deserve this chick. So the only advice for you is to try and push through the fear and do it any way. You might end up doing some weird stuff because your sub-conscious is fighting you, but even trying at all will help your perception of what you deserve.

thanks for the repliesguys...i've been thinknig about it some ofthe night and I beleive that i really do jsut need to go up and start talking, conservate. I am my own worst enemy at this point and I need to :forthe use of a metaphore: grab the bull by its horns ... ill let ya know how saturday night goes because i'll probly end up seeing this girl somewhere out on the town...time to get down and dirty; and grow some balls lol

Thanks, & Gooluck

F|y

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"How old are you?... Old enough to party "

whatever you do don't come emotionally involved with the outcome, which you are on the edge of.

Just do some dancefloor game. It's so easy.

Dance next to her, start bumping your butt against her (like sway your hips). spin her around. push her away, pull her in, do some grinding. every time she reacts well high five her. isolate, make out.

whatever you do, have fun yourself. ITS CONTAGIOUS