| this shit's long, be prepared to read. i tried to make it quick.
goes as follow's,...im at a bar i make eye contact with a girl a few times, don't end up talking to her.
see her the following week, make eye contact, ignore her most of the night, see her at the bar, she starts to walk away, i poke her and end up buying her a shot, we talk for a little bit
at the end of the night she's like see ya next sunday,..
next sunday come's she's not there, i go to the bar on a thursday, she's there with her friend, i pay no attention to her, we go outside, she and her friend come outside, sit at a table near us, make eye contact, invite her over, start talking to her, night ends ,....see ya on sunday.
sunday comes, same deal, end up talking to her, turns out she's actually pretty cool, and lives near my friends house where i'm going after, we give her a ride to her house after the bar, she asks for my number, i give it to her,
txt her a few days later askin if she's wanted to go to this quarry on a thursday, she says cool i'll have to let u know cause i'm not sure if i'm workin or not, she doesn't get back to me.
another sunday at the bar, it's 12, i msg her sayin at the bar, you comin down,
i saw her walk in and i just chilled outside, she ends up sending me a msg sayin, im here, or im inside lol.
i say cool i'll come say hi in a bit.
go inside, and a band's playing, i was trying to talk to her, but it was brutal. it was loud, i was having to lean in because im taller, and couldn't think of anything to say, i was blowing it. we start talking about how she just went to see a movie, and that she hasn't seen hangover, neither had i and i said well we should go check it out sometime, and she says ya txt me this week,
still feeling like i was blowing it, i decide to say goodbye and go back outside,
i was drinking she was boring and driving, so it might have had something to do with her being tense or uptight, but she might have felt it to be as awkward as i did,..who knows.
tuesday comes, i send her a txt saying hey what are you up to tonight, i don't hear back till the next day, she says hey sorry i didn't get your txt till late last night,
10 hours later, i say cool. so am i taking you out this week?
don't hear back, by now, i've almost given up,
but we go to the bar on a thursday and she's there, i ignore, night goes on, my friend ends up seeing one of his old buddy's and says yeah im just here with my girlfriend, sure enough he points to the girl and her friend, still not 100% on which girl he was talking about., i laugh,..
night goes on not paying any attention to her, might have made eye contact or said hello at somepoint,..
anyway he's at a table with her and his buddy and her friend most of the night,...the guys leave and now some old guys are hitting on them telling them to come to their hotel room,..
i walk over and sit down, those guys end up fucking off, not even finishing their beer's and they're like thank you! you just saved us, start telling me the story, we chat for a bit, my buddy walks over, and says hey so what one of you girls are going out with john doe, no asnwer they must have looked at each other, he asks again, and maybe a third time just saying his name, and sure enough its the girl im after, she puts up her finger, in a not impressed way,..
i try to change topics quickly to get her comfortable again, my friend says he's going to another bar for last call, asks me if i wanna go, i say no i'm good, but i'm going to get a ride home with these girls (without asking) and say if thats cool, and their like yeah, so we walk to the car, her friend gives me shotgun, talk about a few things on the way back, then her friend says something about her driving like a grandma, so naturally i find it to be a perfect thing to neg on her a bit with.
drops me off at my friends house.
done
friday, go to the same bar, and she's there again. i ignore, go outside, same deal, end up sitting with them at one point during the night where i was going to chat em all up, i really only got to find out she wasn't driving, so i say, well if none of you girls are driving then why don't any of you have any drinks in your hands,...they reply we're broke,... and then next thing you know her boyfriend shows up before i can even get started,..i go outside for a smoke, and for the rest of the night i ignore her.
still had a good time, but had been left confused,.
so i talk to one of my friends and i know she's gonna be there on sunday,. so i send a msg saying,
Ola, my friends are putting on a open mic jam at this coffee shop downtown on sunday might be something your interested in checking out pre-bar, being broke and all i figured you could use some free entertainment, they just have one rule though, no grandma's allowed, but i'm sure you could be an exception.
she reply's soon afterward,
lol sounds good, i'm supposed to be going to the bar on sunday, with my friends but maybe we'll check it out.
i reply, alright i'll make sure they have a wheelchair ramp accessible incase you decide to show, i'll send you a txt sunday with more details,
she sends me a msg: wheelchair?
i send her a msg: grandma
she send's: my grandma's not in a wheelchair
i send: i was saying that for you! it's not funny if the jokes go ever your head, you sure thats your natural hair color? (she just died it back to brown recently)
she send:oh lmao shut up! i'm a fantastic driver
i send: i think your friend might think otherwise, i knew why their was a reason she gave me the front seat, she was scared! but really anyone that drives that close to the stearing wheel with there hands at ten and two HAS to be a good driver, i'm not complaining though i like it when someones a bit dangerous.
so thats where i'm at.
might explain alot because she has a boyfriend, but ioi, she asked for my number, and still stuck around after her boyfriend left on thursday, and gave me a ride back to my friends house.
how do i seal the deal.
p.s sorry for the crazy unorganized description, or feild report.
and i know the amount of time i've spent at the bar i could have picked up several other girls in this time frame.
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