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Hi!
This is my first post here, welcome everybody. I am new to PUA stuff and I have very little experience in picking-up. I think I am handsome, tall, normal body, age 22. I am studying at the university and there is a girl in the same age. For me she is best of the best.
She uses to hang out with her female friends. I talked to her 2 times, but it was over a year ago and her first impression of me isn't rather great (standard, boring, AFC talk).
In 8 days, there will be a party in my university and she will be there. I would like to approach her and I need some really good idea. I just don't know what to do, and what to say at first. Please give me some advices. I need 100% success here, it is my last chance before holidays.
Cheers
Nine Ninja,
I have to be very blunt honest with you my friend, I teach this stuff, and it's pretty rare to get 100% success rate anyways. That is on a good night and detaching from the outcome so that you can do what you need to get the proper results.
Now, here you are you have 8 days to learn how to get this girl and you have attached so much to this one night where you have to get her. I am sorry to say but you are setting yourself up for failure. A good pickup artists learns very quickly that you have to FAIL to SUCCEED. We go out and fail over and over again until we learn how to improve.
I don't have any magic tips to give you or pills to swallow to make you the best PUA ever in 8 days... I can tell you this though.
+ If you detach from the outcome you will do best in most situations. It can sound strange at first but you not giving a shit about how this turns out will help you get her. If you care too much you won't be willing to do anything it takes to get her.
+ Forget trying to cram for the test, memorize lines, body language, or whatever. There just isn't enough time for it to get good enough that it's fluid and congruent to who you are. If you go in there with fresh untested stuff she is going to see that it is not fluid with who you are, and that will turn her off. -- The second part of that is this. The more you try to learn the more you are going to be in your head trying to remember it instead of walking over to her. You don't need to be in your head you need to be in the moment.
+ That night your attitude and mental state is going to be your most important assets as it is with pretty much any guy that does this stuff. You need to be in a good mood. Do things before you go out that naturally make you feel good about you, maybe jam some music before you leave, whatever. Get in a GREAT MOOD and protect your ATTITUDE. You smiling, having FUN, and giving off a good vibe like that will get you further than any tips we can give you.
LASTLY, GOOD LUCK!
Jon
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