Background:

So I've been spending some time with this HB8 this week.
In my country in our graduation year, we celebrate finishing school by partying for 1 month straight.. Ive been out drinking and partying 15 out of the last 30 days.

These last 3 days ive been with this girl almost 25 hours, 7 of them alone with her. (We were gonna sleep, but we never did.) We have had alot of fun and new experiences together now and gotten to know eachother pretty good. And we have stared into eachothers eyes for probably 1 hour straight. We have developed a good connection and i know she likes me. At least enough that she would let me kiss her. Up until now my morals have stopped me.

The problem is that I had sex with her friend a week ago, and so I didnt feel like I could make a move on her just yet cause she might find it awkward. In addition, she is sick (coughing alot). I havent made out with her yet, but have established very good kino.

Now, the party month is over so I wont be partying with her any more. We've been texting alot afterwards (today and yesterday), where we bring up memories from all that we've been through together. We have great rapport, but Im a little worried I might be too late now.

If i ask her out, I feel like she might say no, just because I fucked her friend. But she will probably agree to just meeting me for coffee or something. But if I ask her out for coffee I dont know if ill be able to take the kino a step further..

Any advice? You could also pick on me for being either gay, or for having morals, or for being a pussy not kissing her yet. Whichever you prefer.

Ok, now Im dropping my morals lol.. If she's OK with it, Im OK with it so Ill just go for it.
Now to HOW:

We've been talking on IM for probably 15 hours since last time, and Im not sure how she sees me. Ill try and take a few examples so you guys can be the judge.

- We were both watching the same tv show and sometime during the show she says: "I like "name of a guy in the show" he's hot"
That guy is kind of an asshole really, so I just casually say
"Well, then I guess I know how to get you. If I ever get over the smoking problem" (she smokes, and I have told her I wont hit on her coz she smokes"
After this she just gets really hung up on this, she says:
"Oh yeah? And how would you do that?:D"
I answer:
"If I tell you, all the excitement will go away. And I told you I won't hit on 2 friends in the same week"
So she says:
"Im not saying you should:D but come on, tell me! How would you do it? There wont be any excitement anyway:D"
Me: "A magician doesnt reveal his tricks"
Her: "But your not a magician"
Me: "You cant be sure of that, but anyways, (swithcing theme)"

You get anything out of that?

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Some background: We're both really into TV series. How I Met Your Mother, Family Guy, Seinfeld. So I know she has a good sense of humor. And we both like taking it easy and just chillin out.

So today I asked her what se was doing tonight. She said she was probably gonna go hang out with a friend (gender unknown) coz she has to get up real early next morning. So I say. "Ok, I was gonna see if you wanted to do something uncool and unchill with some unfunny tv series at my place."
she says: "Haha:p Sorry:( But id love to do something uncool with you sometime!"
me:" k, cool. but I have to go. I have a soccer game:)" She says bye<3 i say baibai:).

I get home pretty late, so I wouldnt have had time for her anyway, and i text her saying. "sup with getting up at 6 am? Work?"
she says: "Yeah, it sucks! How'd the game go?"
me: "We won 2-1.. (pretty unimportant game and I havent mentioned it more than that one time). When do you get off work? If you wanted to do something uncool with me Ive heard that shopping for sunglasses at H&M after work tomorrow tops the list by a pretty good margin"

Her: "Thats greeaat!;) Congratulations:D (about the game) I get off at 4 but im possibly going to a reunion later at night. but im down with doing something uncool. The sunglass shopping couldnt get more uncool, so im game;) haha:D"



BTW, this is translated from my own language, so not 100% contextually correct.

Hope someone takes the time to get into this situation, as I am not sure if Im already in the friend zone or not. If you need to know more, just shoot it at me.