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| para3 | PostPosted: Wed May 20, 2009 9:47 pm | |
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Posts: 7 | | Hi,
I have a problem. A girl that I'm dating asked me that question twice, in two different events. It happened to me with another girl in the near past?
I really like this girl, and she interest me, not just sexually. I listen to her because I enjoy learning about her. I'm not acting like a total AFC and approve everything she says. I tease and bust her balls, but I listen too and approve some of the things.
She is attracted to me, i have no doubt about it.
Is it a shit-test?
What should I say/do in this situation?
Thanks
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| Dangerboy | PostPosted: Wed May 20, 2009 10:08 pm | |
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Posts: 255 | | dont think too much of it and just play it off with something like "ok, enough about you, lets talk about how amazing i am. you start." or "i dont know, you do seem to talk about yourself a lot. so how about this weekend's game/the weather/something equally boring"
maybe she feels uncomfortable talking about herself, maybe she feels that she doesnt know you too well (which is good early on in a relationship - the "mysterious" image), maybe she just wants to change the topic. in any case, neg/c&f and move on.
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| Lemarc | PostPosted: Wed May 20, 2009 11:13 pm | |
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Location: Seattle, Wa | | YES, PEOPLE ARE WEIRD.. WE ARE INFLUENCED PRETTY EASY BY THE ONES WE LIKE.. THAT'S WHERE THE JUMPING OFF THE BRIDGE EXPRESSION CAME FROM. IF ONE PERSONS ENERGY LEVEL IS HIGH THEN WE'LL NATURALLY TRY AND MATCH IT.. OR IF ONE PERSON PUT HIS FINGER IN THE CAKE THE OTHER WILL DO THE SAME. IF ONE PERSON TALKED A BIT ABOUT THEM SELF THAN THE OTHER WILL WANT TO SHARE ABOUT THEM SELF TOO.. IT'S LIKE AN EVEN TRADE. ANY MORE OR ANY LESS THAN IT'S BORING.
AND IT DEPENDS WHO CONTROLS THE FRAME TOO
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| para3 | PostPosted: Thu May 21, 2009 9:01 am | |
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| Visionxxxxxx | PostPosted: Thu May 21, 2009 12:53 pm | |
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Posts: 680 | | in what tone she say this to you? does she seem a bit annoyed about the fact that you guys always talk about her? or she kinda light hearted when she says this with a smile (in a shy kinda way).
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