Do you guys ever feel like you missing out on being a pua now that you have a gf? Before I had a gf I thrived on going out with my boys and picking up....then I met my gf and stoped it all cold turky! but I was not planing on having a gf!!!! in fact I didnt want one but my gf and I get along so well and I knew I couldnt let her go....problem is I have girls throwing them self at me at the bar or msging me on facebook, or txting me....heck one of my gf's friends told me I should be single so I could have fun with her!

Do you somtimes feel like you are missing out?

This sounds horrible but lets be honest when you have the power to be with beautiful women it does make you think wow what have I missed out on?

When I was going out with my girlfriend Becky, yes I did. She hated it when I went out cause she thought I was cheating. I feel ya man. But ya gotta tell her to let you loose sometimes man.

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I felt like this soooo soooo much in my LTR early on. I was in the same position - I just wanted to sleep around but we both got along so well and everything seemed so perfect that we ended up dating.

I felt the same way you did several months in though, and I even broke up with her one or two times to explore other options. I never did anything on those breaks though, despite temptations, so I took that as a sign that I really did care about her.

Still, it hurt her immensely when I broke it off and she grew more and more distant over the following months.

Yes, you could go out and fuck dozens of good-looking broads, but if you really get along that well with ur gf I'd say don't throw away something special for superficial crap. Fucking other girls might make you feel like the man, but finding someone you really really connect with is rare.

If it's seriously a problem for you you can do what I did and break off things to see what else is out there. Beware of the consequences though. If you sleep with someone else and ur girlfriend has any sense of self-worth, she could be gone for good. You just have to decide what's most important to you.

I honestly felt I was missing out before I met my current girlfriend, but for different reasons: after so many unfulfilling relationships I was beginning to think there was some underlying issue with me rather than the people I was dating! My current relationship changed that, so no, not missing out. Why would I feel like I'm missing out when I'm happy?

And truth be told, if your girlfriend's 'friend' is serious, she's not much of a friend.

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No my gf is amazing! I really do care about her but I would be lieing if I had not thought about other women...its bad though because if I knew she was doing this I would be pissed! I would never cheat on her! but when you have the power to sleep with beautiful women any night of the week it does make your eyes wonder a little...thats the shity part about being a pua I guess but the good thing is I have a great girl who I care about and I didnt settle like most guys.

dude, if you really love you g.f, then you def. not missing out on all those whores out their bro, trust me.

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I do feel like I'm missing out sometimes. I've been with my current gf for over a year, and we are a great match. Lots of chemistry and the sex is still great (although its evolved to become quite kinky to be honest).

There are times where I think.. "I'm only 20 years old.. I could have gotten with countless other women in the year we two have been dating. I shouldnt be in a relationship!".

I usually end up slapping myself out of it though - because I remind myself why I'm in a relationship with this girl to begin with - we have great chemistry and do so well together. When I look at things with perspective, I don't think going out, and hooking up with girls that I probably wont have this bond with, is that good a use of my time. Sometimes you need to stop looking for something else and realize that it's been right next to you the whole time.