Hi there,

Joined your forum after reading "The Game", and realy impressed with what I've seen! Now I'm a real newbie, so bare with me, but when I go out I lose confidence, and the main reason for this is.... that I don't realy see myself as being better looking than any other guy out that night!

Now I may be wrong, but from what I've read it seems that the best PUAs are good looking stylish blokes. Now I understand that lots of girls don't look at "looks" as the main thing...but I can't help but think that most girls won't even speak to me as I'm nothing special compared to the other blokes out!

Now like I've said, I'm a real newbie, and a good listener/learner, so please let me know how you see it!


Thanks

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Hi, you say you read the game... Notice how style went from being an AFC to one of the best PUAs in the world, and he didn't take anyplastic surgery. he changed his style, but he is still not good looking. Looks is important but much less than you now think it is, and you can improve, go to the gim, change your hair style, etc. what it's more important is to learn about game, and you'll get the confidence you need.
i hope it's clear

looks are important -

but not total.

when i say looks, its not in a Brad Pitt/ 'most beautifull man in the cosmos'
way, but in the way that you look like you have confidence/ presence, that you look clean/ well groomed and you are wearing stylish clothes

its important to have a style that fits you. The best PUA are always looking stylish in the way that compliments their personalities.