i read an article from deangelo when he is talk about, girl testing you.

""Most men respond by trying to win the woman’s approval. If she tries to cancel plans at the last minute, you’ll say “Oh, no problem”. ""


ive read the book double your dating, but in cant seem to find an answer to what to do or say when she cancel or change plans. In this form of test, what am i suppose to do??? i need a good answer on this one

There are many different reasons why she'd cancel . . . who cares? Why do you need to know any of it? She could have diarrhea. She could have the cramps. Her pet hampster might have died. Maybe she ran out of clean panties. I mean . . . really . . . sitting at home worrying about why the other person cancelled is a "woman's" job. Why? Because women don't call men for dates. They sit at home waiting . . . worrying . . . dreaming up all the reasons why a guy won't call her.

So she cancels . . .well you're a man right?

"Hey, that's too bad. Alright, so I'll call you next week." Done. . . And then call her next week.

Meanwhile, call up 1 of a thousand girls who live in your area. This is what men do. We call women to take them out. Don't have their numbers? Go out and get them. Again, this is what men do. We go out, meet women we like, and we ask for numbers.

Empower yourself.

Women Will test you early on to see if you are a wimpy washover nice guy that she can just roll right over. Its called shit testing. If you need practice, check this...

the-shit-test-practice-thread-vt7323.html

If you let a women roll completely over you in an effort to be easy to get along with or whatever, she will lose respect for you and you can basically say goodbye to anything seductive happening.

for ex. If you ask a girl what she likes to eat, and she says whatever you like to eat, she is being a washover. You know she has something she likes and something she hates. Her unwillingness to just tell you makes her a washover and you lose interest. If a woman stands you up last minute style its because A) she really was never interested in you, or B) she is still interested but something really came up to mess it up. If she is still interested, she will offer to reschedule the date the exact same way you would if something happened where you had to break plans. When you talk to her don't be mad, but be firm that you don't want to get involoved with people who are unreliable. Than it will be on her to prove she is better than that. Keep yourself the prize.

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thanx for the answer subzero, and she did reschedule, but i wasn't that intressed in her so i didnt return any msg. Im out socializing, flirting and having fun, with as many girls as i can to get experience, so when i meet someone i really like i dont totaly fuck it up. that why i rly wanted answer to the question when i saw the article.

Where did you read this up? Good Housekeeping?

What if the girl is just terrible at keeping a schedule? You'd let a piece of vagina go for poor scheduling etiquette? We're men. We run the show. She might reschedule or she might not. Don't put this responsibility on her. "Cool, I'll call you next week" is all it takes.

Be firm and tell her what? My God, I'm an old man and that is one of the dorkiest things I've ever heard. Who teaches that crap? You want her to prove to you that she can be a better scheduler? Look, she is reliabe or she is unreliable. You can choose to date her or you can choose not to date her. You're going to sit there and teach her reliability?

Very few women actively test. . . . and we're talking nubile ages of somewhere around 28 where they get nervous and they think they're running out of time. So they use the only weapon they have . . . their vagina. (And they need to be coached by 5 of her friends and a pile of magazines to make it through the test.)

Most of what we know of as "shit tests" are just instinctive nervousness + their efforts to conform to their little cultural norms.

How's this? There is no wrong answer here. Just start living. Hell, tell her, "OK, OK, OK! OK?" (Can you feel my tone? Can you see where we are?)

Do you know how much power we have as men? You are free to call her back next week. You can stiff her next week. You can call 100 other women now. You can call 100 other women next week. See . . . this is what your girl has to contend with. Once you realize this, you will walk differently. You must realize the power you have . . .

Hahhaahha What Womens Rights Movement?!

SEXISM gets you laid!

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Kasabi, I totally agree with what you said. I typed that reply about 10 mins after I woke up so it reads different than I meant it. I didn't mean he should give her a lecture in etiquette at all. It should be more like this.

HB: I can't go out tomorrow, something came up that I can't miss.
PUA: Oh, so your good looking and you can't keep your plans? Lucky me, I try to avoid the irresponsible types. (SAID IN A COCKY AND FUNNY WAY!!!!!!)

(note: if you cant tell by my posts, I am CnF on auto pilot.)

If she is interested but just playing hard to get, she will like this reply.(she will know that you are still willing to persue and not be a baby about her flaking one time.) If she is shit testing you, (which this won't usually be the case) you have passed. The interaction after this point in the phone call should help you calibrate how bad she really wants to get involved with you. Kasabi, I agree with making the initial contacts and doing the pursuing. This puts you in the drivers seat for what happens between you two. So my fault for the way that first one comes off.

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