Yo so I'm new to the game. I've studied as much as I can for free on the internet and I feel I have a pretty good grasp on the theoretical aspect of gaming, attraction building, IOIs, etc. But like any good student I'm trying to learn more and I've got a situation that I'd like some help with.

So I'm studying abroad in Australia and I met this girl on Spring Break that I'm very interested in. Fast forward to last week. Me, her, and a group of mutual friends all went downtown. Me and her basically go walking off on our own and she tells me a few times how cute I am. She also says "Has anyone ever told you, you look just like Tom Cruise, I mean you've just got that beautiful smile" I told her yes and smiled and she made a noise and said how nice it was again.

Later that night me and her are going to her dorm and this guy who had just gotten done kissing a girl goodnight walks by us and goes "Are you two together?" Of course I take this opportunity to be cocky funny as well as plant the idea in her head and go "yea we are." So the guy turns to her and seriously says "wow you're very lucky, look how hot he is, what are you doing here? if I was you I'd already be in there doing it." So, I grab her by the waste and say semi-jokingly "let's go baby" and lead her in by the waste. That was a huge DHV.

Anyway later that week the same group comes over and we all go out dancing. She initiates by coming over grinding with me. I then take control and twirl/dip her. Then I disengage and go off to meet other people and get numbers as a way to DHV. And though we went out as a group besides when we were all dancing it was me and her the entire night. Also, I played Neil Strauss's five question game with her and owned her. We bet a massage (always thinking of ways to touch her) and when I beat her she goes "Oh you definitely deserve a long massage for that." Finally, we were talking and out of the blue she asks me where I went to school in the states and she goes "Oh so we are only about 3.5 hours away from each other." I interpret that as a good sign because she is a very logical person and it sounded like she was calculating if a long term relationship would be doable.

So lots of good stuff there but here's the thing, she has a boyfriend of 3 years. Worse, he is coming to Australia in 2 weeks. However, she is breaking her promise to take him to New Zealand because I told her to come with me instead. I've been doing the boyfriend busting techniques and combined with the IOIs I've received I'm pretty confident. I mean they say the longer the relationship the easier it is to break up.

I guess I'm just wondering if I'm blowing any of this stuff out of proportion and it's really nothing? Trying to work on my interest reading game.

This got pretty long but I'd appreciate any and all input.