so i went out on wednesday to a really packed bar n ended up gettin too hammered and blacking out (symptoms include not being able to remember any of the pictures that were taken, not remembering any of the girls i got phone numbers from, etc lol) but yea ended up gettin this really cute girls email and number. and frankly dont remember her one bit, but added her on facebook.
the question is is there any effective opener for this, cuz personally i think im stumped
this happens to me all the fuckin time n i guess i should stop gettin black-out drunk

DKfromLA,

Yeah basically you should either go out to drink or go out to meet women. Doing both typically doesn't give you the best results which you know.

In this case I think the best thing you can do is let it go. I mean what are you going to email her. "I was drunk, and I can't remember you but saw this email in my pocket and figured WTF?!?" She knows you were wasted and an email is a pretty crappy contact method anyways, that is a blow off mostly. It's a very inpersonal way to speak to someone.

The other reason is you don't know where you are in the process. You might have attraction or need more of it. You probably don't have much comfort established with her if all you have is an email, or not much of it. Forget about this one, and go out sober.

Jon

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*Phone Call*
You [in a high energy tone]: Hey whats up missie
HB: blah blah blah
You: Oh thats great, here is a big question: How do I know you?
HB: blah blah blah
You : {Tell your story}

I do this all the time, if your high energy and give a fun vibe over the phone you can get away with it. Also, if you emphasize how you were DYING to know who "Big Ass Nicole" is on your phone, it'll go off just fine

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As much as i typically agree with Jsmooth, i dont feel 100% as he does on this situation.

Countless wild nights. i will remember portions, but not everything. Ill have numbers, emails and texts.

If she is already on your facebook, just play the night off as an awesome time. Most questions in life become answered over time.

Have you ever been in a group, something was said you dont understand, instead of asking the meaning you said nothing, later the meaning was revealed without ever looking like you where lost. Do the same but with the girl. For all you know she thinks your an awesomely fun guy that knows how to have a good time! Besides, what will it hurt besides learning something from it all.

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