Hey guys,

I have been reading all of the forums and am getting some great advice.

My brief pick up history:

Every girl that I have hooked up with has been a friend of a friend that I met in a group of people. I have never picked up a random girl anywhere really. Most of the time I just don't want to be another guy hitting on some poor girl at the bar. But I believe that if I could just get her talking that I would be fine and that most girls would like me.

My question:

When I go to the bar I am afraid to approach random girls for the reasons described above (lack of experience and fear of looking like a creeper) . What is a way to grow some balls and not miss these opportunities? It isn't a question of being able to talk or deliver a line, it is just the thought of physically walking up to the set and starting a convo. How do I get over the initial hump and get in there?

Thanks for reading

When ever someone asks about AA, I normally just refer them to the style life challenge- ie. go to the shopping centre, and say hi to every girl you walk past.

But, you have the wrong frame of mind SPAM. You believe you look like a... 'creeper' and so you're acting one. Be comfortable, and if you're new to the community, then dude it really makes no odds if you're being rejected.
Lao Tzu said: The clever learn from their own mistakes. The wise learn from the clevers mistakes.
My advice to you: don't be wise.

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Thanks man. It sounds like baby steps are the way to go. That sounds like it should help.