wuts up guys. this is my fisrt post on this site. ive been reading it for awhile, but now i have a question. i dont know where exactly to post this, so mods feel free to move it. 1st a little background... i dont have social anexiety or any fear of rejection and ive always been pretty good with the ladies. i do know however that you can NEVER stop learning about a givin subject. thats why im here. i even have the rare ability to suppress my feelings and treat my interactions with female as a game... ill even put MYSELF in the "friend zone" sometimes ON PURPOSE just so i can work my way back out. its fun for me and ive gotten very good at understanding girls as a result. THIS brings us to my question.

ive been talking to this girl for alittle while now and i got her to come to the club with me friday night. now im pretty sure she liked me b4 we went, and she only showed more attraction all night on friday... IOI's, she kinoed me, i kinoed back, and im talkin grabbin on her booty, rubbin her inner thighs... i KNOW she wanted to kiss me bc she showed all the signs, BUT like i said, its a game to me so i started to kiss her but right b4 i got to her lips i backed off. you know leave her wanting it worse than b4. she wouldnt dance with any1 else all night long even when i did. grindin on me ALL NIGHT blah blah blah you get the picture.

so after we leave, on the way home, her mood changes. i thought she was just tired at the time cuz it was like 4 in the am... but after talking with her tonight, i changed my mind about the situation and decided that wasnt the reason. so i asked her about it during a txt convo, and as soon as i did she said "you dont know why it changed. ok goodnight boo." that was VERBAITUM*sp i asked her why she was shutting me out and she turned super bitch and said she was TRYING to sleep. so i just let it go for the night and told her goodnight.
so i have NO IDEA wtf is goin thru her head right now and why whe flipped on me like that, and since i never get stumped like this, its keepin me up thinkin about it. i feel like im the 1 gettin played here lol. so anyways...does any1 have any opinions on why she acted like that or advice on how to get the answer outta her?


ps. sorry for such a long post but i figured you needed some decent info to understand my delima

Mr dsgb (what a funny name),

First things first: CHILL OUT and catch a good night's sleep, because what you're doing is working dude...don't you see?

YOU are not the one being played, not at all...on the contrary even, your game is WORKING and let me tell you why.

It's classic push-pull: closeness-distance, letting her get closer, pushing her away..and always leaving her wanting more.

OFF COURSE she wants to have you all to herself, for a 100%..right now...but you're not letting her, she leaves you wanting more..but you're not letting her HAVE more.

So guess what happens?

It doesn't take an Einstein to figure it out either: she get's mad because she knows she can't have...it's anger out of desperation.

I always say: if you hit a nerve, in a good way or a bad way, you touched her emotional world...YOU are having an effect while the lame competition can't even keep her from falling asleep out of sheer boredom. She when she's mad, that's passion...don't worry about it.

Why do you think she said "you dont know why it changed", because she wants to give you a not-so-subtle hint that she KNOWS you're doing push-pull, she doesn't want to do the close and far away thing anymore, she's getting frustrated with love.

But that little boo at the end hints that although it frustrates her, it turns her on, she's highly passionate about you. It's in the pocket my friend, call her right now and set up a date..not in the club, but at somebody's HOME, okay?

THAT'S how ready she is for you.

Funny that you don't recognize the power or effects of your own game - you remind me of me when I just started

P.S: no one's blaming you for "playing games" either, because you like the challenge, the game of seduction IS a challenge because without...you would be BORED, and boredom is THE instant attraction killer. And challenge, challenge brings growth

ya thats always been my main problem... not realizing the effects of wut in doin till much later. and sometimes after ive missed my oppritunity. well thanx for lookin out. guess im not doin so bad with this 1 after all lol

Okay dude, spell check.

And yeah he's right she wants you, and you are not being mind fucked or something like that. Just play it cool, and look up "List of Text Messages Game". Best thing ever, and it helps because it looks like your a texter

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Happy Hunting,

Dsbubba

aight so yall were right. I brought her back to my house yesterday, and SHE asked me if i wanted to have sex. needless to say i F-closed for about 3 hrs Thanx for the help.