Is being a virgin a DLV. Im still a virgin should I not admit it. Or is their some way around it or a way to use it.

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Just DO It!

In my opinion, congruence is the DHV to be scored here. I am also a virgin and I am proud of it. If a woman asks me if I'm a virgin, I will openly admit it and my attitude will convey a feeling of achievement. If you are not proud of the fact that you are a virgin, then you may need some other tactic. If you try to play it off as something of which you are proud, but you are not, you're setting yourself up for subconscious self-sabotage; or, later, if you DO get an opportunity to have sex with the girl, she may become suspicious at your change of heart.

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Some vices miss what is right because they are deficient, others because they are excessive, in feelings or in actions, while virtue finds and chooses the mean.
Aristotle, Ethica Nichomachea

if your not really proud of it you could wrap the message in a c/f sort of way so shes not sure if your serious or not. that will give you a chance to move on to another topic without having to come back to it.

I am trying to loose my virginity. Im not happy about. Iam just wondering if a girl would find that as a DLV if She found out or I told her.

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If you're a virgin by choice then I would stick with that! There are aspects of it that are very admirable as long as you're confident about it I think playing the V-card could potentially be a boost to your game!

If you're still a virgin due to other circumstances, then I wouldn't neccessarily bring it up if you're just out sarging. If it does come up then play out the shy card and give a little story about how you were the nerd in high school and you're working on being socially(or something along those lines).

Either way you can play it to your advantage!!

-Crain Diesel

So I guess it is a DLV?
Since Im not a virgin by choice.
Ive been sarging this girl at my school, and I have disarmed her boyfriend and have gone out with her. She is still going out with him but they dont sleep with eachother, and shes looking for sexual intimasy. We dont see eachother as a relationship, but as a possible friends with sex. I know shes not a virgin. And what im getting is I probably should not tell her. Right?

Im taking her rock climbing this weekend with her and I going to escalate to sexual kino when I go to her house. I guess im just nervous. Thats why im writing this post.

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It's only a DLV if you make it that way! So don't!! I was a virgin until I was 20...Although I love sex, I don't regret waiting that long! Tell her if she askes and say it like it's just another conversation topic!

I know I used to do it at one point, but why do AFC's have to make such a big deal about sex!!! TREAT IT LIKE ANY OTHER CONVERSATION!

If you don't have much or any experience, then tell her that! But also tell her the you think she should be the one to teach you...women love it when they can teach a man something...especially when it comes to sex!

Hell sometimes I still play the poor little inexperience guy and everytime I do women get all caveman freaky on me!!!

-Crain Diesel

Yes , it's a DLV.

Quit thinking so much! Chill. Just go on and be. The question of virginity only matters for the girl. She is the one who gets screwed up when she loses it. Guys don't change. Physically or mentally. Girls change both physically and mentally after the act. And may I add, NOT IN A GOOD WAY!