I have been put in the friend zone by this woman and i am in the middle of changing her mindset, she went all frosty today because i am starting to look good and i am acting different to our past encounters, i am using the scarce tactic as well.

But in the meantime i am starting to play the field, this girl that works at the cafe which i liked did not notice me for months, but this week i talked to her and give her long eye contact, i also touched her hands after she said she had a mild rash, she is holding eye contact with me everytime she talks to me, she is really responding to me all the time, today she come to the cafe and said hello to me, she was smiling, i held eye contact and so did she for a long time, what does this mean, is it a technique that can be used to further things, i am nearly fifty but look like a forty year old, she is 27, but i like her style.

Yes, eye contact is one of the most important aspects of body language. Eye contact is the first step in forming attraction. It's instinct for a woman to respond to it. I wouldn't say it could be used to further things, but it does make you much much more attractive towards women. There are a lot of videos and books about body language available and if you can get you body language together you will find that women we be naturally drawn toward you.

Also don't worry about the age difference, you are probably more attractive to her because you're older. Women tend to be attracted toward older more distinguished men (Freud thought it had to do with repressed daddy issues).

But non stop eyecontact or only some?

eye contact often tells me alot about a chic,

strong ec lets me know they are confident and not afraid to show it,

ec and then a look away then ec lets me know that they liked what they saw but maybe a bit shy, but defo interested

a side glance leaves the options open depending on the chic.

exactly eye contact is usually the first IOI I get from a girl. if she holds eye contact u better approach immediatly if she makes ec then looks away but comes back 3 seconds and approach if she looks away and keeps goin I usually do the same its an easy way to increase your approach success ratio

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Seen this girl again today, i managed to touch her twice on the back as she passed, so there is some sort of kino going on, its difficult for me to see her until thursday, she was with a friend today , but i managed to captivate the both of them with my stories, so it all went well, i will write my phone number on a piece of paper thursday and pass it to her in the busy cafe, its the only chance i have.

another thing is she has a child,which i think is holding her back in going for it, this does not worry me, i am mellow and i accept all forms of baggage, i really like her and i am going for it.

The woman that put me in the friend zone won't know what hit her, as this girl of 27 is stunning, and i aim to get her on my arm, she will know whats she is missing.

since november i have lost 2 stone, i wear some eye catching colours, i look smart at all times, i wear nice smellys, i walk 3 miles every morning, i do yoga, i eat healthy foods, i have stopped drinking, this is essential in a players armour, there were 5 women at the cafe today, and i captivated them, people are responding to my confidence, but eye contact is my new game, this girl knew i was different by the way i used my eye contact, and boy did she respond, as if she knew the game, i still have alot of work to do to get her, but my foot is in the door, so its up to me to go further.

Eye contact alone is not enough to seduce girls.

You need to then talk to them and escalate the interaction verbally, physically and logistically. This is how game works.

What you've done is warmed the approaches a little bit, but you still have a ton more work to do.

Make sure you read some of the posts on here about what to do next.

S

Some great responses on here keep them coming, i have only just got back into the game after 4 years in the batchelor zone, i was a male escort when i was younger, taking some classy birds around, but i have lost my touch and i am a bit rusty, it takes a while to adjust, but eye contact is the key, i only got the interest of this young smart women through proper eye contact, and i have known here some months, i have touched her a few times without her flinching, i need to be alone with her to escalate kino and get a stronger rapport, i do think she has hang ups over her child, but i must make her feel comfortable over the situation because it does not worry me.

So one aspect of my game is working, eye contact, my confidence is sky high, and i look good, so i must now work on my other techniques like kino and rapport and flirting.

The woman that put me in the friend zone will regret what she as done, she took her husband back after confiding in me, she is going to sign him back on the mortgage, absolute lunacy, he will drag her into the gutter, he gambles drinks and smoke's heavy, the laugh is he is copying me, he has gone on a diet, and i told him i was going for a haircut monday, and guess what, he just had his haircut, he see's me as a threat, but i am flattered because i am nearly 50, and he is 30.

I have also lined up another target, she is blonde with very long legs, she works in another coffee shop in town, i smiled at her yesterday and she responded, so my advice is target the smartest looking women in town, try your eye contact techniques and always smile, keep me posted.

IMO, don't stare in someone's eyes too long. If they look elsewhere while you are making EC, look at their face as a whole, but focus less on the eyes. Prolonged EC makes a lot of people uneasy.

Today i tried eye contact on my friend who has put me in the friend zone, we were talking for a while and i looked into eyes, not staring, but focusing on the right eye, and for a moment we were both mesmarised with each other, a strange and weired feeling come over me, and i think it happened to her, this is powerful stuff, she then commented on how young i looked to the guys my age and complimented me, she then said she is getting a T shirt for me for the rugby, and she said she will get red wine for me for that day, she then brought up the subject of viagra, which i thought was strange, so we got on to the subject of sex, which as been my aim all along, she made me 2 cups of coffee and she was touching me, this is ultra rapport, she is also looking at me all the time, i think the tide is turning, but the spanner in the works could be the 27 year old who i bumped into today in the pooring rain, i was dumbstruck to be face to face, i looked into her eyes and she looked into mine the sparkle is still there, this is matter of time, i think the weekend, she gripped my arm tight and i gripped her arm, this was like a natural reaction, this is surreal,this is something that happens in films, i hope it does not get complicated, but my friend has had her husband back, which means i will have to make a play for the 27 year old,this will be interesting when it unfolds.

But guys its all about eye contact, it gets your foot through the door and increases you're chances by 30% or more, the rest is about simple routine dating game, and you're own player power, clothes, body language, smellys, hair, ETC, i wear pink shirts or pink jumpers, or bright lemon t shirts, or even get pink shoe laces, you need to be different to the other losers, once you make good eye contact, the girl will check you out more closely, they will zoom in on you're appearance, last friday in a pub, i met my mate for a drink, there were 2 women opposit me, i looked at them with eye contact, and i could see they were interested, they drunk their drinks and left, but they looked at me on the way out, then 5 minuts later they came back with another friend, and they were looking over all the time, so i give more eye contact, and they said hello to me, and they were nudging each other, so its working.

I wouldn't say that, learning all this stuff is hard work, then seducing becomes a walk in the park.

Like your attitude man keep going for it, sinn is right about eye contact though, it's not enough alone but it can be really powerfull if used correctly.
I don't want you to make the same mistake i do sometimes though, sometimes i give a little too much eye contact. Especially if you're fishing for eye contact and you are looking over at her all the time. Allways be on the lookout for signs that she isn't appreciating the eye contact, if you notice she isn't liking it, you must stop right away. It's easy to give too much eye contact trust me, i know i have done that mistake a couple of times.
But keep it going bro, allmost 50 and getting into the game, i must say i do admire that.

This is crazy, the woman who put me in the friend zone twinged her back muscle while working, today she asked me to massage her back, so i did for 5 minuits i was having the best kino you can get, she was totally enjoing it, this would never happen before, its all down to eye contact yesterday, something has happened, i think she see's me as more sexualy appealing than before xmas, my new image is paying off, if i can hit this target that would be hell of turnround, because people don't get out of the friend zone, tomorrow i am working on the 27 year old who i should see, this could be a simpler task as we already have good eye contact, so its just a matter of getting her on her own and building up trust and rapport, if my timing is lousy, i could end up with nothing, so i am now looking for a 3rd target just incase it goes pear shaped.

if anyone wants advice on the friend zone, i can help, i have worked hard on this woman, who before xmas was not responding in fact she was the ice queen, we have been friends 10 years, but she is starting to change, i can detected it ,i can't make to many moves due to her status at the moment, but i think this will be like a whirlwind when it happens, and both of us won't now what hit us, today when i was massaging her back i detected a connection, she was comfortable, if it was a private place, i think more would have happened, thats how close i think i am, and thats my gut feeling.