ok there's a girl that i like, that goes to my church and i started talking to her on myspace and that's how we meet. she knows shes hot because every guy at church wanted her but I seemed to have got the furthest with her by using techniques and tips I learned from a book called "Swinggcats Guide To Real World Seduction" its a very good book. the reason i got the furthest is because i was talking to her all the time and we both liked each other, even my friends read what we were talking about to each other, and they said she likes you. We even both agreed that in the future when we start hanging out, we would go out and the good stuff, you know. anyways we talked for a while and finally saw each other at church i came up to her and kinda froze up a lil but then i got out of it and she tested me by saying "your complicated" i gave her a weird face as if she said something out of this world and walked away, then later she texted me and said "you didn't get what i ment i ment its hard to explain things to you" we talked for a while and stopped talking to each other for like a week. next time i started talking to her she started being rude and didn't want to play along with me even whenever i teased her, she takes everything up the butt, and she never did that before. I told her to stop being rude and stop being serious she said "ok sorry" but just continues doing it as if she don't wanna talk to me. help me what do i do to become in control again?