hey yall

this weekend gone me and a few of the adelaide boys sarged a few places and I met this one particular girl who was really cute and may very well be worth a second round. We've exchanged a few msgs (this is the day after) just ur regular cocky funny kind of thing... but i realise that it will be 8 days til I have ANY money to speak of, and even then... its even longer away from that weekend which would be the most viable time to meet up again. I obviously want the meet up to be fairly casual and not in the "dating frame" as it were, where we just meet up at another night club have some fun and not need to cling just too eachother. i want to know the best way to instigate that.. plus bridge thoes many days between then and now.

First of all hi to a fellow adelaidian!

As for your question just don't feel like you have to msg her. I think if your always msging someone you come across as needy. Just leave it for a day or so to keep her wondering. Just chill and maybe call her later in the week to see what she's up to and to tell her how exciting your week has been (make something up if it hasn't been exciting).

You need money to take a girl out? I don't think it's absolutely necessary, maybe a few dollars to pay your own way. Think of something completely random to do that is cheap but really fun. If it's a casual meeting than you don't need to spend much money.