Ok, here is the scenario.

I met this girl and we've been texting and chatting for a little while. Then on Friday night I was supposed to meet up for a date but at the last minute she bailed only to call me 2 hours later and ask if she could come over! So I picked her up and she came around to my place at about midnight. She hung around till 4 in the morning and in the period of time we talked and I mercilessly worked the kino. Everything from tickling, hugging, smelling her hair, massaging her feet, kissing her neck etc. I even told her she was strong and ended up wrestling with her on the floor. I tried the "do you want to kiss me" question and she sort of didn't say anything. Unfortunately I was not close enough to make my moves there. I know this girl was gagging for it but what I also know is she has been hurt in the past and is pretty cautious about sleeping with anyone. It's something we discussed before. After all sex is the ultimate investment a girl makes in a relationship.

To cut a long story short she is coming around again tonight. When we spoke the morning after Friday night she said she was confused and not sure about things. She said she was not too sure about me copping a feel. I told her I was merely caressing her and there is a difference between copping a feel and caressing. So this time around I told her there would be no "caressing". Of course I intend to continue this in order to break through.

So what I need to know is what do I do to break down the last bits of her resistance? I know she wants it.

Here's the thing...she's coming over trusting your words that you will not be "caressing." So, maybe you'd be able to pull it off if you are SUPER smooth, but if she is already gaurded going in, she's not going to be very receptive.

If I went over to a guys house after he expressly promised that there would be no "caressing" and then he tried it, I'd get angry and leave, and probably not give him any more chances. If you really want this to escalate, you might want to respect her wishes tonight....and try another time.

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Hobbit says that I should tell you I'm female.....so.....

HI!!! I'm a Girl!

A good point. Thanks.