Hey I'm fairly new to this forum and was just wondering if anyone could give me advice on a problem I currently have. I met a girl at a party at my college and started to flirt a little but it was a big group and didn't feel it was an appropriate time to try to make any serious moves. One of her outer circle friends was there who has a crush on me but with whom i have zero interest of pursuing. Over the next two weeks I saw her out multiple times at parties and began to build a rapport with her. This took place before I started reading these forums, and since have learned to better deal with other girls trying to ruin my game.

Anyway, I started talking to her online a little bit more often to build up the rapport and everything was going well. She then told me that she moved to a town very close to mine and as I don't currently have a car this was a huge opportunity for me. I went to her house and we hung out for a few hours, never leaving conversation awkward and we obviously hit it off very well. At the end of what I consider the first date I k-closed and all was looking awesome. At this point I'd pretty much decided that this girl was worth dating, which was a fairly big decision for me as I've been single by choice for two years.

The next night we hung out at one of my friend's parties and all went perfectly, she got along with my friends and the kino was working beautifully. By the end of the night we were sleeping together on my friends couch and everything was great. The next time we hung out she seemed a little more distant but still seemed fairly into me. I figured it had to do with this time it was her bringing me to her friends party and she possibly was worried about how they'd like me. By the end of the night I was being offered shots by her friends and everything seemed great.

Then the next day the problem arose. I had a interview in the town she lives in so I asked her if she wanted to hang out afterwards for awhile. She agreed, but then the next day when I went to her house she didn't answer her phone. At first I figured that maybe something was up, but then she didn't return my phone calls at all either. This was on tuesday and its thursday now so I figured I would just give her a few days and then attempt to call her on friday to see if she wanted to go to a party with me.

Theres the set up and now comes the problem. When I signed on facebook today she had posted pictures from the night before we hung out and it felt a little different. In two of her pictures were her ex boyfriend and her and there were a string of back and forth comments between them on each picture that pretty strongly led me to believe that he may be back in the picture and a problem for me.

This girl had previously told me that she liked me alot and I would like to make her my girlfriend if possible. does anyone have suggestions for ways to deal with this ex boyfriend situation? or should i just give up?

The next day

Man, thats too bad. Usually if a girl is giving the run around or flaking out the blue its for a couple of reasons. Either she knows you better now than when she met you and she is no longer interested in persuing anything with you, or she is single but still has feelings for the other guy. Maybe her pics were to S test you but I doubt it. I would give her a freezeout for a few days and see if she texts or calls. The next time you get in touch with her, make her tell you whats on her mind. Tell her you don't want to waist time on some immmature chick who plays games. Make it her loss to lose you, not the other way around. she is already past the LJBF stage don't back up the train. Move forward or move on but do not stand still.