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PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 3:14 am 
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Ok guys. I need some advice. I'm a rather new pua and new to the community. Here is my situation: I met this girl who I've been gaming the last few weeks. She is married and the only time I really get to talk to her is on our train commute. Things were going fine until I decided to do a freeze-out, hoping that would get a more positive response. Well now she avoids me and when I do get to talk to her, she says I have changed. What gives?? Any advice for a newbee??


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 4:41 am 
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Why did you do a freeze out on her?
Was it just because you hoped she'd respond better?

Freeze outs are not to be used whenever you feel like it. They need to be used as a sort of punishment for when she does something wrong.

If she did nothing wrong then your freeze out was unjustified and naturally you're going to lose her interest.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 5:33 am 
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Ok Cinnamon. I understand now. I kinda misused it I see. I was hoping for a push-pull effect. She didnt do anything wrong. I didnt realize a freeze-out was so powerful. This girl literately looks at me with hurt eyes. A look like I just kicked her dog. My question now is how do I regain her interest or is it to late for that and I should just move on?


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