I will precede my question with some background info. 19 years old, attending university, been in the game for about a year.

I sarged a girl on the bus day after Christmas. She ended up going to the same university as me. I # closed. Day 2'd her about a week after. Had the interest up, hand holding, kisses on the cheek, but when I went in for the kiss close I got a strong vibe that she was holding back. I was confused but brushed it off as bad timing (although I've been in the situation b4 and based on prior exp. it should have worked). Met her again at the uni. and was intent on K closin. She held my hand the whole way to the spot I was gna K close at. Then when I went in she told me she can't bcuz she has a bf. At the time i was a lil surprised (but it was my own fault for not seeing it). I recovered and continued gaming over the next week. She texted me a couple days ago telling me how she made a mistake. I took her to the same spot again today and made a point of saying the exact same words. Worked perfectly and we made out on and off for 30 min (had a class to attend after). Although I feel like I have her i get a vibe that there is an internal struggle in her trying to decide to leave her bf for me or not. She is the first girl I ever met to never call me back after a K close, which is weird 2 me (maybe not enough exp.). My wings say to keep workin her as if there is no bf. I'm not sure if i should bring it up with her and use some bf destroyers or whether i should meet her friends so that her friends give her the green light to leave the bf. She's got a close group of friends so I'm thinking she doesn't wanna come off as a cheater/slut to her peers?

Alot of people may say dont bother cus she has a bf, its alwayws trouble blah blah, funny enough i have a simular problem at the moment which i writ in under mid game yesterday... So its obvious she has interest in you if she kissed ou and stuff so thats all good..

But yes the BF!! the obstacle, your wing is right in the respect that u shouldn be unphased keep gaming on, but at one point or another if u wanna turn the HB into a FB, or a relationship.. you both have to aknowledge the BF as a problem.. Thing is with women they are social creatures and care highly about how ppl view them, way more than us but luckily follow there emotions.. So maybe hang with her in a non threatening way for a coffee or summit, and make her comfortable, make sure she trusts u, so that she wont be worried about u telling ppl and it getting out if she F closes with you, Say hey if 2 people are having a great time together why should politics get in the way, life is for living, or other routines etc...

The fact that she cheated also may signal that her bf is doing a bad job, so i say yeh keep busy, keep gaming strong, make her comfortable keep showing DMV, and especially if she starts saying how annoying her BF is sometimes dont agree, but maybe drop in a bF destroyer routine, and bang u can probs F close... Happy hunting. Deus