so Saturday night I'm going out for a friends birthday and I call round to a friends place first.

i meet my friend(male), another friend(female) and the new SPAM... a very nice french girl

so i arrive meet everyone then i get introduced to the french girl which i met once before but pretended not to remember her and introduced myself again.

i chatted with them for a while. i had some 12 year old whiskey so I offered some around... fench girl took some and then asked if its ok to mix with coke. so i immediately said no way and jokingly went to take the glass back. i gave her a few glasses anyway.

then off to the club..........

she goes to the bar and comes back and I say...hey wheres my drink. to which you smiled politely

later on she passes me again and moves in to talk and touches my shoulder.... I say , hey thats goina cost u 20 euro..

then after the club shes asking me to go get chips/fries so I'm like acting a bit hesitant and say ye just wait a sec and see if anyone wants to come. so a few others come. she gets her fries and we o back to her house.

i entertain the party with some tricks and just having fun. i never really pay her much attention.

i sleep on the couch next morning she comes in, sites down on chair next to me facing me side on.... i have her laughing and chatting bout things then shes like I'm going out to meet my boyfriend!!

i think if i can get in regular contact with this girl I can get her.



Do you think i blew it by using too many neg's / DHV's or what the slang is for what I did....

I'm sure she likes me but i dont want this to be another friends bullsh*t

Advice would be most welcome.....

Ok, sounds fine so far, good use of negs, using some push-pull, not always giving her the attention.

Although, you mentioned that she said she was going out to meet her boyfriend. Time for the boyfriend destroyer routine perhaps?

I haven't field tested it myself yet, but feel free to give it a try if you think it's worth a shot.

Don't let her put you into the LJBF zone though, stay clear of that, she'll be coming at you with all her problems especially to do with her bf, I've had that experience with a girl who I was chasing, I'm still her friend to this day, but she never grew in to my one-itis thankfully and I think she still has attraction for me, haha.