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dark one
PostPosted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 3:22 am 
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I met a girl at the bar and we talked....went back to my place, and then ended up hooking up. She stayed the next day and hung out but since she went home we have no talked much.

Now If I want to see this girl agian how should I go about talking to her? what should I say? I was thinking of shooting her a text but im not sure what I should say other then "hey lets hang out" or "hey im going to take you out next weekend."
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 3:42 am 
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Ok so this how I really fucked up! I mean I feel horrible and sick to my stomach about this!

Ok so last week I was at the bar and talking to a girl....She was very attractive! and she was all over me....we both got drunk and she end up coming back to my place....long story short we hooked up. Now Im sure the smart thing would have been to keep my mouth shut but I looked her in the eyes and told her I would never lie to her and it was eating at me! I mean i felt sick to my stomach....so I told her and of course she now does not trust me and is pissed.....she said she need time to think and I said I undersand and that I care about her and just want her to be happy no matter what she decides.

What do I do now? I really like her! I mean its not just a flingI want her and I know she wants me but she cant trust me now.....what do I do? I dont want to loose this girl....
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I met a girl at the bar and we talked....went back to my place, and then ended up hooking up. She stayed the next day and hung out but since she went home we have no talked much.

Now If I want to see this girl agian how should I go about talking to her? what should I say? I was thinking of shooting her a text but im not sure what I should say other then "hey lets hang out" or "hey im going to take you out next weekend."
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Why do you need to say anything more?

Clearly she's interested in you so I don't think she'd be adverse to seeing you again. Then when you two meet up make an SOI.

Be open with her, be honest with her and make sure it's very clear what you want. Tell her straight-up that you're interested in something more.

But just what is it that you want? Do you want an LTR, to date her more or what?

Make sure you know what you want and communicate it to her honestly. Women value men who are openly honest with them and know what they want.

However, you should be aware that it's entirely possible she didn't want anything more than a hookup and she'll shoot you down.

Be prepared for the outcome, know what you want and communicate it effectively.

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Plethora brings up an interesting point.

Is there something you're not telling us here?

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Ok so this how I really fucked up! I mean I feel horrible and sick to my stomach about this!

Ok so last week I was at the bar and talking to a girl....She was very attractive! and she was all over me....we both got drunk and she end up coming back to my place....long story short we hooked up. Now Im sure the smart thing would have been to keep my mouth shut but I looked her in the eyes and told her I would never lie to her and it was eating at me! I mean i felt sick to my stomach....so I told her and of course she now does not trust me and is pissed.....she said she need time to think and I said I undersand and that I care about her and just want her to be happy no matter what she decides.

What do I do now? I really like her! I mean its not just a flingI want her and I know she wants me but she cant trust me now.....what do I do? I dont want to loose this girl....
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I met a girl at the bar and we talked....went back to my place, and then ended up hooking up. She stayed the next day and hung out but since she went home we have no talked much.

Now If I want to see this girl agian how should I go about talking to her? what should I say? I was thinking of shooting her a text but im not sure what I should say other then "hey lets hang out" or "hey im going to take you out next weekend."
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Dude that girl told me to hit the road....she was a good friend before we started dating and I fucked it up....nothing I can do about that. Solid girl! but life goes on....cant sit around and get pissed about it all I can to is learn from my fuck ups.
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I was "seeing" or I guess dating a girl for about a month....not serious but she was a solid girl and a good friend. I fucked it up! and she does not want any thing now....dont blame her eather.

Am I siting around crying about it? no. Im still aloud to go out and party, meet people, and mabey even date them am I not? lol Im young and single so that what Im going to do.
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