Ok, I'll be honest here. I have my hair styled and I like to keep myself looking really clean cut and stuff. My friends kid around and call me metro, which I guess I kinda am. But I'm as straight as an arrow. I've never been asked if I was gay though, but last weekend I was talking to a HB 12...seriously, she could have been a model. Things were going good and she invited my wing and I back to her house to hang out with her friends. Things were going well and I got many IOI's from her. I haven't had much experience with 10's, so I was a bit off game. However, she invited me back to her room and I thought to myself, "YES, I got from here." Than, she closed the door and asked me if I was gay... Things just went downhill from there...anyone have any experiences or advice? I told her that I wasn't, and she said, "oh, ok, I didn't think you were." and I was just too distressed from there to make any moves...We just drank together and talked for the rest of the night...

I often have the same problem, I'm very well groomed, fit, well dressed, well spoken, etc.. But I live in a large hick-ish community so I can see the drastic contrast. I'm just going to move, I do much better in metro areas.

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HB: "Are u gay???"

Straight man: "I dunno. Would u find out for me?" -> go into sexual mode

Straight man: "Yes ... But only on Monday, Thursday and Sunday. By the way, today I'm bi, so dont worry". (assumed Today is Tuesday for example).

Straight man: "Is that the way u say that u doubt my sexual ability?"

Straight man: "Yes, it's my trauma... But I think today I found a girl that can help me go back to traight way ".

Straight man: "Yes. And I think u r lesbian too, so we'll make a perfect couple "

Straight man: “(serious face) I used to be offended when people ask me that question (sly smile) but now I use it as an excuse to enter the woman lingerie shop and chat with the cute staffs)”.

I'm newbie tho. Dunno if they work.

So... a hot girl flirts with you, takes you to her room, closes the door, inquires about your sexual orientation, and nothing happens?

Dude, just smile and kiss her. Don't over-complicate or analyze things like that.

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God, I almot feel bad trying to get Pleth to attend a workshop these days because he obviously gets the basics.

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How do you mean? You haven't tried to get me to attend a workshop

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Personally I'm unconfortable with people thinking I'm guy. If you are too, then you can add some masculine attributes to yourself to rid people of all doubt. Like me. I used to be asked if I was gay a lot. Then I started accenturating my strong jaw line with rouge. Since then noone questions my straightness.

Joking . I think the above advices are great. Now you have lived the situation and it is known to you. Next time you won't be thrown of your game. You'll be able to maintain your emotional states and the question won't create any doubts about anything. She'll find out the hard way that you're straight. (you are free to use that line )

Let's just say that that was the final shit test b/f the grand finale. I hoped you just shrugged it off and had a good night. If not it's okay b/c you got that far for a reason, so keep cracking at it, and always keep a cool head, even if she asks you "Are you an alien? you tell her some smooth shit and continue the work you were doing b/f.
Give us updates
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I would've said, "Fuck yes!" then made out with her.

LMAO man, that's a priceless opportunity right there!
Seriously, you didnt lose anything when she asked you. You know you're metro, you know you're not gay, and you're happy with it, right?
So dont think about telling her, just show her!
PS: afterwards, you can always say "what do you think?" just make sure you did your job well!

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I get this a fair amount due to the same reasons and having a gay older brother.

What I do is go

I'm not gay and I'll prove it. Close your eyes.

And then I makeout with them.

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A lesbian girl just asked me it on MSN. LOL!!

Thanks for this thread!

I hope she's BI!

My friend had a similar problem this is how he handled it.

HB:Are you gay?
Mate:Not yet, but if we don't get down to it sooner or later I might have to start thinking that way.


Use it as you will... it worked for him though.

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man, you blew a wonderful opportunity.. it's trial and error though, better luck next time

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Lol this WAS a great opportunity you lost, but you seem to be playing good game so keep at it. Next time it happens, just don't let it throw you off...

Say "no" smile, and kiss her. "Now you know". And then escalate...

You were practically in the sex location bro... I need to work on getting that far consistently... But in any case, great job.

As for me I'm not "metro" so the issue never came up for me. I've got thick eyebrows and so much fuzz that I could never be mistaken for gay