alrite, so before i went on break for school there is this girl in this group i'm in. our group went out for dinner and me and her sat next to each other. i made her laugh a few times, then at the end of dinner she mentioned she was havin a party and she said we should come over. then she asked me if i wanted a ride home, and then in the car she was like .. you shouold really come over tonite. so i ended up goin over there. i showed up by myself and her roommates were there. anyway the nite went ok i was talking to her friends and roommates, like girls and guys, just having a good time.

we were all playin kings, then she had to go play pong b/c she was next. after that she came back and shes like "o hey, bill is coming over" this is another kid in our group, and i know that this kid used to go to her high school, and i guess on their prom night they made out.

so once she told me that he was coming over, i feel like i always feel when this happens, and that is like a huge "RETARD" i immediately lose my confidence and feel like i'm in 8th grade again and like a girl is using me.

so for the rest of the nite, that kid came over, i'm friendly w/ him so we bsed, but then the party got really packed and i got really drunk and ended up leaving b/c i felt so shitty.

but how should i take that situation and her inviting that kid over? i immediate feel competition when she said it, and i like that kid so i dont like to compete against him u know

1. Dont get drunk....I have a new rule in the new year that I will limit my self to 3-4 drink in a night. Once I hit 4 I eather drink water, or red bull. Being drunk slows your brain down.

2. Start using your game....you know what to do but I think your problem is eather you dont know how to apply it, or you are afraid? You need to start using push pull ect ect....my rule is for every 3 pulls you add a push....its a game man the more you play the better you get.

3. Let her see you having a good time! you need to get in the proper mind set that "im going out to have fun not to pick up" girls can sens when you are trying to pick them up and if you just go have fun they enjoy being around you....you going home makes you look like a bag of douch to her lol

Oh also look for IOU'S! If she is throwing them out at you and flirting then it is time for you to isolate her and move in for the kiss....the kiss will seal the deal and If she is into you then you need to do this! If you wait to long then you run the risk of being the "friend".

yea i probably did look like a douche .. i've been way off my game lately


what about her invitin that guy over?

demonstrate value my friend! you may not want to compete with this guy, but in life you will face obstacles you don't want to but if you've got confidence and you show this girl a good time and show her you're worth her time or...better yet show her shes worth you're time ya feel me? if you're confidante and demonstrate value, you'll leave this guy in the dust, hell if you know about her past with him for all we know she could have been attempting to play the jealousy card. girls are tricky man, but i hope this helped a little

Later days

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so first off dont get to drunk cus u dont wanna do something stupid that just totally fucks u over haha ive done that before and major regrets in the morning. but u shouldnt feel competition when another guy comes over. she may have wanted you to feel that so in return you should have gone threw your night like nothing ever happend and insted of ignoring the situation u "attacked" the obsticale by talking to him and bs'ing with him which was good this shows that ur not intimated by so called "competition" but i had a girl that wanted me to compete for her so i dropped her ass. thats just me but i dont compete for girls. what you should have done is just keep talking to her and when threw some routines and acted as if he didnt even come to the party.