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Discuss Will the girl flake? Critique my text game. at the Phone/Text Game within the The Attraction Forums - Free Pickup and Dating Advice; I was talking to this girl on myspace and built up lots of comfort and ...
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alexle92 alexle92 is online now - Male


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Default Will the girl flake? Critique my text game.
I was talking to this girl on myspace and built up lots of comfort and she gave me her number. Heres the recent text convo i had with her:

Me:
Hey goof i bet my weekend can beat up your weekend
Her:
Lol k lets hear it
Me: You're the challenger. you go first
Her:
I completely forgot what i did thinking about it now.
Me:
Ahh throwing in the towel already?
Her:
Lolz i dont understand that gangster term
Me:
Dont you guys start class tomorrow?
Her:
Yes we do, do yall?
Me:
Of course not. Lol, you said yall. If i dont have anything planned, I'll pick you up after class.
Her:
Why dont you have class? And yeah sometime this week you should.
Me:I'll give you a call tomorrow..

Do you think she's gonna flake? Where should I take her after picking her up? gym or coffee was what I had in mind.

Yeah i think she will flake man. She basically tells you when she wrote "yeah sometime this week you should." To me that is her indicator.

You had good text game going IMO but then you just seemed to jump to the conclusion really really quickly.

Me:
Dont you guys start class tomorrow?
Her:
Yes we do, do yall?
Me:
Of course not. Lol, you said yall. If i dont have anything planned, I'll pick you up after class.

That last text just seems to come out of know where as if you have already talked about doing something or going somewhere, which you didn't. You where going the right direction though.

I would have easied a little into it more (but i dont know the relationship you have/have had with her). Maybe you should have been like "nah, this break off has killed me though. I sleep in until like 1 PM (a time close to when her school gets out) everyday..."

her: "yeah. me to blah blah blah"
you: "then when i wake up i need to get coffee to truely wake up. Seeing as youll get out of school around then would you want to get coffee with me? The Barista (sp???) keeps trying to talk to me, but shes soo annyoning"

her: " lol really?"
you: "yeah, I think she has a crush on me, but she is not my type. I'd stop going there, but the coffee's just to good."

... or something like that. you could also just be like Im getting bored just talking to the barista because no-one gets coffee at 1PM (or whatever time you said before)

I was about to say the same thing. While I got flaked on myself a few months ago by a girl who liked to text (although I laid out the time and place of our supposed date), I did learn that if the girl is being VAGUE or simply NOT SPECIFIC, that's a red flag right there, it's not good. If she is able to commit to the time and place that you suggest, then your chances are much greater.

Calling > Texting if possible helps too.