Hey guys here is my situation that I need help with. I am new to this community and art form, but I've been able to hold my own before running into this great resource.

Basically I have always found this girl in High school very attractive in all aspects. We "went out" in 9th grade, but it was the lame 3 week gig that never amounted to anything. By Jr. year we were both in serious relationships which lasted until the first year of college. However, we both broke up with our significant others and now in our second year of college we are both free.

The other night I saw her at a party and we talked a bunch. I made sure I didnt give her too much attention but I was definitely trying to plant a seed. At one point the girl and her friends wanted to go home so I offered to drive. We awkwardly said by to the hosts parents and went to my car. Her two friends decided to go back in, but she didn't want to bc it would be awkward. So we sat in my car for about 1.5 hrs and just caught up (couldnt make a move because she has mono). Lot of joking and smiling going on. She fixed her hair a lot but I think she was just keeping it out of her face and hit me a few times when I ragged on her. Two days later I texted her and invited her to come over to my buds house, but I never told her when to comet bc another grl came who I was also interested in.

Where do I go from here? She is generally just a flirtatious girl and I dont think she sees anything too special in me i.e. I feel like she'd give most guys the attention she gives me. I'd love to bag her one night but I'm not confident enough that she wants it bc we've been good friends ever since 9th grade...

Forgot to say thanks in advance for your time and help!

Still looking for some direction. Thanks!

these are kinda touchy situations since you have been friends for a long time.... thats good that u didnt give her to much attention. it sounds like u have a fighting chance seeing as you sat in your car with her for 1 1/2 hours just talking... what i would do is take her somewhere social like a party or something to hang out and be a social person with a smile on your face and she can see your still a fun guy and after awhile into isolate her somewhere and jump into an attraction phase with a good amount of keno and at the end of the night go for a kiss close and set up a date or something.

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Blanc - thanks for the advice. I think thats a great idea. I will start reading up more on kino as I am somewhat new to that.

Thanks again!

lots of good threads on breaking out of the friends zone. very similar to regular game.


lots of kino, and DO NOT become her therapist. show that other girls are attracted to you, you want her to start thinking about you in a sexual context.