Structure-hunger

AFC’s when approaching may suffer from structure hunger
You have the initial contact of “Hey, what’s your name?”
And then they are left like, “what now?”

Which is why PUA’s create the structure themselves and set the frame as to where it should lead (her meeting your standards)

However structure hunger can relate to anything; not knowing what to write in an essay, the next step in a recipe. This tends to generate awkwardness and uncertainty (traits you cannot betray when gaming)

This is also why we encounter all social living, everything is just a means to structure time, we have this need constantly, “what time will you be at the club?” “when are you meeting me?”

Structure consists of three sub-sections

• Need for external stimulus or material objects, physical intimacy. These are unchangeable facts, usually about our physical environment. The structure lies in how we interact with this.
• The need for social interactions but in a way which is compliant to the social standards set by others, good manners. The structure lies in how we interact with people. PUA aims to optimise the effectiveness of this process.
• This is the unspoken structure, regulations of intimacy leading to sexual deviance, this is the primal need, and this is an ever changing structure, leading to changes from person to person, which is why this area is often the most turbulent.

The games that people play are bound by the emotional content, not the game itself. Encouraging the target to associate high level of positive emotions is a core aspect of game.

It is not the object or event itself which determines reactions but the emotions tied with it, which is why 2 people can look at 2 different objects with violently opposing views. If this was not the case, we could not have opinions.

IF THE EMOTIONAL CONTENT CREATED IS SO NEGATIVELY DIVERSE PEOPLE MAY BE SHUNNED FOR THE BOUNDARIES BEING BROKEN.

Time can be structured using these elements:

1 – Relief of tension (Openers)
2 – Avoidance of bad situations
3 – Venture for “stroking”
4 – Maintaining an established equilibrium