This might be a luxury problem but when Im out meeting girls I almost always get a kiss or phone number when Im dancing with a girl and she feel my abs. I feel that my abs is to my advantage but I dont know how to show it of without being creepy or wierd. Any tips?

(Sorry if the english is bad. Im from Sweden.)

I wouldn't focus too much on it to be honest, I get fantastic appraisal for my abs when a girl sees or feels them, however I don't make a point on drawing attention to them simply because that is far too close to bragging.

Don't rely on your abs for success but if there's ample reason for them to be felt or seen, be happy about your advantage.

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Now when I think about it I think you are right. I don´t wanna brag. So maybe its just best to let it be a surprise. Thanks!

Yeah when dancing with a chick then kissing she sometimes feels my abs and that's a surprise. Never go up and ask if she wants to see her abs even if she asks. Make her work for it, you're the reward so make her jump through your hoops so that she may be able to see/touch your abs. Just don't offer yourself, cause you'll look needy. Also don't use it as a crutch, because if you game a girl and never show her until k-closing or f-closing, it will make an even bigger impact. She'll go oogly eyes over it because it's such a surprise. So yeah stay conservative and don't mention it unless she brings it up and make her work for it.

Just don't do it. Guys who feel the need to display and show off their bodies all the time are tools. I have a pretty built body and pretty define abs, but my body doesn't make me who I am, so I see no need to parade it around like a peacock's feathers to try to attract girls.

Exactly. Don't be one of those guys whose always shirtless and showing off. Give her time to let her imagination wander a bit and then when the time is right whip your shirt off and blow her away. She'll think its a lot sexier that you haven't been bragging about your body when it turns out to be really good.

Thanks alot for the answers! Really helped me clear my thoughts. One of the biggest reasons to why Im in this forum is that I have to learn to aproach and interact more. Ive had two relationships for a really long time and never had the need to aproach other women. Sometimes women aproached me but I think its more for my looks than the way I am. So i really need to work the game and dont rely on my looks. Just let it be a help on the way.