Here's the deal:

A girl i've been gaming for a couple of weeks but known for a while has been interested in me, always giving me IOI's. She's invited herself over once and to breakfast a few times (college campus), along with random interaction here and there. Her phone game sucks and she never really opens up, but we have a blast together in person and she's amazingly cute. (HB9/personality 9/phone 3). She's always ecstatic to see me but seems too shy to call, although facebook chat (which i'm tired of) is her easy open.

I've invited her to hang out/go with me places but she's always truly busy (school/work/blah blah). She always has gone to breakfast when asked to meet me and had me walk her to class (flirting/negging/push pull along the way, her pouting if i tried to leave early).

I'm tired of only hanging out for breakfast and waiting for her to be available. I'm considering telling her that she's in the friend zone if she is busy next time I invite her. She cannot fulfill my needs like this. I know I know, One-itis, right?

I'm looking for advice about:
1)Would telling a girl she's in the "friend zone" make her more attracted by knowing she can't have you?
2) What do you recommend for my current situation?

Thanks guys, I'm all ears.

Extra thoughts: Putting her in the friend zone would help me out psychologically, knowing that I don't even bother seeing her as a target until she does the same. If I freeze her out completely I don't think she would have the guts to call me after a week or so, might go cold.

A couple things:

The dreaded "Friend Zone" is a tool that women use. Not men. Don't be a fucking girl. That's number 1.

Number 2: It's an interesting idea, but I'm dubious as to whether it will work. Thing you've got to realize is that while YOU might be thinking it is doing one thing (i.e. generating attraction by taking something away from her), it might just be reinforcing something on her end (Oh he thinks of me as a friend - that's great now we can be just friends and life will be fabulous).

This could only work if the girl was like crazy into you - and I mean crazy like almost would be stalking you in love with you. However if this girl is cute and there are a bunch of other guys in her life, you putting HER in the friend zone is not going to make a difference of any kind to her. If anything, you're shooting yourself in the fucking crotch and moving away from the image of the "sex-worthy" man.

As for this chic not having time to spend with you, there are two things you can do:

1) MAKE HER HANG OUT WITH YOU. i.e., show up at her dorm room with some lunch/snacks/whatever. Make her take a timeout from studying. Be spontaneous. If you're both awake late one night, just randomly go out for something (pool, drinks, whatever, doesn't matter). If she resists (and she will) just do it anyway. Push that boundary. People in general hate doing things; people in general are unmotivated. You have to bring that motivation, and get her out and on her feet - she'll eventually admit (if not to you then to herself) that she's having a good time. And I CANNOT stress this enough - BUILD KINO.

2) OR you can just not bother. Honestly, if a chic is so hard pressed for time that she can't be bothered to spend time with someone - I'd honestly just dump her. Approach it from an abundance mentality. Women are a everywhere. Don't get caught up on one girl. Seriously, if she's the type of girl who hates being spontaneous, doesn't like doing anything other than boring-ass breakfast (unless something sparked the night before), or is so uptight that she can't take a time-out (I'm saying as an example, I have no idea what this girl is like) then I personally wouldn't bother.

If you're GOING to do something - DO IT. Don't wait. Don't plan. Don't try and come up with some bizarre strategies. Just do it. Be confident. And don't waste your time.

Cheers,

Q.

PS - Don't you dare WAIT for a girl to BECOME attracted to you. Just attract her - period.

Good deal. Thanks for the quick response Qlass. I know my post made me look pretty AFC haha, just clearin my head. I think too much, tomorrow I'll just act instead of think. Party tonight!