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Ok, here's the scoop...
I went out with this HB this past Wednesday (before Thanksgiving). We had some drinks etc... but she gave me some lame excuse as to why she couldn't go back to my place.
Over the next few days we talked on the phone and flirted via txt message. So I wake up Saturday morning to find a picture message on my phone of her tits (Nice fake double D's by the way). So over the weekend when we spoke/texted I kept flirting in a sexual way and she wasn't really giving me the responses I was looking for. She keeps saying "I haven't slept with anyone in a long time, I'm not a slut, I don't just sleep with anyone, blah blah blah..."
So we have lunch on Monday and during lunch we plan to have a date at my place Friday night.
Here's whats confusing me... This morning she sends me a txt saying she had a dream that she came to my house and we spent the night together. To which I replied "How was our sex?" She says "We didn't have sex, we just cuddled and it was nice." So I made a joke out of it and said "Spooning always leads to forking." and she says "You're wrong, you just have to have control, don't worry I'll show you how to control yourself." WTF???
I am NOT going to waste my Friday night with this chick if she thinks we're just going to "cuddle" so should I cancel the date... or does anyone else have any suggestions?
Ok bro lets breakdown this down. You can bang her, BUT , you got to play your cards right. Not trying to diss you but your coming off as alittle desperate to her. Your being so sexually forward is raising her ASD cuz she thinks your goin to bang her and leave her. Given, thats prolly what you'll do, u dont want her to know that. She doesnt just want to feel like a peice of meat, and your being so forward is. So this is what you have to do. Flirt with her and keep the mood lively, use alot of push pull to really create some tension. Use kino and escalate. Let me stress the push pull once more. You have really need to do this, cuz lately you have been striving for her, reverse it and make her work for you. Once she warms up to ya, kinda turn a cold shoulder, keep her guessing ya know. AND now the most important part. Freeze out. If you play your cards right you will be on your way to sex, but given her ASD, she will probably give you some LMR. When she does this, except it. Just be like" u know your right, im not really in the mood either" Show her that your just as content not having sex. For real, you got to sell it. If you play it right, once she sees you can just walk away and be fine with it it will get to her and she will start re iniating on you. Then your home free. Good luck brah you got this.
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