Havent seen this girl in a little over a year. I graduated college a year before her and even then we didnt see eachother much cuz we went to school an hour apart. Well we are both back in our hometown and she calls me and says we need to catch up. We are having lunch tomorrow during my break. Not a big deal at all, I cant wait to catch up with her. But I did realize that I am far enough out of the friend zone that I'd probably be successful if I pursued. I havent decided whether I want to or not, we might be actually better off just friends.

Easy question, pay for her lunch tomorrow or not? How would the decision change depending on if I was going to pursue things further or not? Small question I know, but it could make a difference I'm sure.

i would pay than game her after that.

if she doesnt put out on the 3rd-4th date throw in the towel.

i think it would earn you some points if you paid rather than not.

Idk man. A general rule of thumb is not to pay until after you have had sex with her. You make the call tho, you know her best.

I'm assuming it will be a sit down lunch, and you should play out the situation and see how it goes. If it is a pay as you go thing, let your wallet decide. You have it or you don't, but you need to have an idea of what you want and what to do about it or your just an AFC.
(Sorry for any bad spelling)