I was thinking: I dont want to approach her, she's on her phone! That would be rude!

I remembered that when a girl is on her cell, that is usually a sign that she is bored.
So I went up to her and said "You look like your having fun!(smiling)"

I did #close but thought that there must be a better way. Any suggestions? (Preferably field tested.)

"I Thought You Were Trying To Text me, Thats Why i Came To You." said with confidence, or, you can just say it in a normal tone. But smirk a little smile, not big goofy now..

I've done it twice, and the girls were both smiling and very receptive. I've also gone Direct to 2 women, on different occasions talking on their cell phones. Yes, i #closed one of them, and the other one was loving it.

And come to think of it, The woman was walking the opposite way of the way I was walking! (coming towards me, on the side.) And on Mysterys vh1 show, he says, you can't approach women when their walking towards you. What a crock of horseshit

u got Aproach Anxiety,,
plain simple,, just admit u do and work on it..
one way to kill AA is to fucking force urself out of comfort zone,

she`s on the phone? well guess wat fuck that, ur more interesting person and when u approach, come off with fucking load of confidence and she`ll hang up and make out with u

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Gotta Fuck em all! Pokemon!

of course I have AA. EVERYBODY HAS AA! Mystery, Gambler, Jdog, Matador, Adam Lyons. The proof is in the fact that they all admit it.

Its something that never goes away (or so i hear) But I did force myself out of the comfort zone. I got her number, and later on she was texting me:)


But good advice, def gonna try the "I thought you were texting me!" approach. It sounds like something I would pull off.

Yea, and about AA, Mystery doesnt have that fuckin anxiety anymore, he is IN THE FIELD alot, and approaches women all the time. That AA isn't there when you are approaching women. Only when you are rarely approaching women. All those puas are lying when they say they have aa. They are used to fame AND approaching women.

how the fuck do you know how other people feel. EVERYONE feels anxious from time to time, and if you say you dont, then you sir, are a liar.

I've personally used (and subsequently seen AFC Adam use something similar )

"If he's late dump him" but you can use anything along the lines of late/waiting for someone.

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Rich

I would normally agree with you. I was watching some in field footage of Mystery at a club. He was standing 3 feet away from his target 3 set, talking to the camera about how "... even the best get anxiety..."

Besides that, he tells his students that AA never goes away completely. I went to one seminar he had in Vancouver, and that was actually the one thing he told me personally.

me: Do you still get AA?
mystery: Yeah, but it's not half as bad as when I first started pickup.

you look lyk ur having fun is agood approach that girls usually respond to well.