Gentlemen

So much is said about:

- I am the Prize
- Neg her
- Freeze her our
- Act disinterested, make her chase you
- Never show your hand
- Dont declare your interest, thats her job
- ...etc
- ......etc


Challenge to enlightened men more so than me: explain to us AFC's at which point this becomes "stand-off'ish" and would give her the impression that youre COMPLETELY UNINTERESTED (so why would she bother, right?) and why would she waste her time and get hurt? I know that sounds soft but try and understand where i'm coming from with that.

Surely to god there becomes a point where not showing interest, not declaring your hand, neg'ing her in the hope she'll try and qualify herself, freezing out with quite often a 50/50 of she will crawl back or think 'hey get stuffed'...and so on. Surely this quickly becomes counter productive?

Thoughts???

Mister Ex

Basically you want to phase shift into a feeling of "okay you are starting to win me over now..." to eventually "we both are attracted to each other. If you follow Mystery Method it this would be during A2 into A3. Just try to feel it out in your next few sets. You'll start to know when to push and when to pull.

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Ok... Yes in A3 you can start showing interest but that was not your question right?
There is a balance between being uninterested and being not needy. This is the difference:
Uninterested: What, you and me, no no no, Im not interested.
Not needy: Yeah, you are great. If you wanna be with me fine and if not, there are other girls out there.

But you always need to remember that you are the prize, for the rest of your life!

The "I am the prize" mentality is there so you are non-needy and shows a sense of confidence. You don't literally show disinterest but you don't show interest so easily that she loses interest in you (walking away thinking, "That was easy.").

It shows that you are used to being around girls and are not baffled as to why you are with one at that moment.