i have been sleeping with this girl for the last month now and i asked her to be my girl sort of thing and she said " i love the way you touch me, im so comfatable with you, you make me laugh, but i just dont see that with you we have nothing in common".
she then went on to say that she does not want to stop seeing because we have alot of fun together.
she even said i can sleep with other girls if i want just let her know and i have to wait a week to see her after i have.
Now this girl is not a bitch she is so lovely and kind and caring,
the problem is i dont want to sleep with other girls i just want her really!!!

what can i do to swing things in my favour im really stuck!!!!!

The best way to change a womans mind is to agree with her. Chase her and she will run, go out of your way to make her see differently and she will run. That's all you really need to know, no need to make it more complicated than that. Hell, in all honesty you should never settle for less than what you want and if that means walking away so be it. She'll probably chase you and it'll all work out, if not, you don't have to deal with the hurt. Win-win situation.

I agree totally.

You have to be the one leading, and she has to be the one complying. It is counter intuitive, but the men that women find attractive are generally not the men they want to have relationships with. You need to broaden your horizons by playing the field to put things in perspective. By showing a non-needy persona, and perhaps by utilizing some NLP embedded commands and such, you can make her feel more comfortable with you. That being said, a lot of women just aren't looking for an exclusive relationship at a certain point in their life. Just deal with it and make the most of it.

I'm telling you now, your relationship problems will become so much less apparent when you are coming from an abundance mindset.

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Solomon's got this one on point. And what you have to understand is that girls can enjoy having a hook up buddy just as much as guys. She obviously sees you as someone she can trust and an outlet for sexual release but not anything on an emotional level. What you could do is start seeing other women, when she gets jealous just ignore her. Soon enough she'll be begging for your attention.