I know this seems really obvious, but a lot of the stuff on this site is totally content/step-by-step oriented. This is not bad when learning content, material and how to apply it. BUT I think sometimes it really leads, at least me, down the wrong path thinking: "boy, I have to learn all this shit, and act this way or I'm going to fuck up." This is negative and its obviously not the right way to frame things.

So in any case, its nice to have all this stuff up your sleeve and it helps, but as the common rules go: get out there and get experience. Well really, who are these "Goddesses" we are sarging, they are people. Acknowledge their situation (you must pace and lead), but even on first contact treat them like you know them.

Am I on the right track with this?

I don't know, but sometimes when I read this stuff I get the feeling that people are trying to tell me that there are magic tricks to unlock this holy pandoras box that is woman. Sure there are ways that do and don't work but it gives me the impression that seduction is about trickery, which I do not want to believe at all.

Any thoughts?

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All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him. -- Buddha (the playa)

Most people who are new to this stuff, usually treat it like a bag of tricks. They are always looking and giving advice on what is best to say in a certain situation or what not. I was sort of at this place a year ago when I got introduced to 'The Game' and especially Mystery Method. Now I realize that inner game, frame control, and making yourself as presentable as possible is really what matters most.

I rarely ever give lines or such, and if I do it is meant as an example to explain my advice. Learn to create a better map of reality and find out what are all the wrong things you have been doing in regards to beautiful women. After this, don't worry about lines or counting IOI's or when to neg or not. Learn to control the frame and convey the high-value, non-needy, comfortable, and competent person that you know you are.

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