Hey, so this is the story short.

Ive known a girl for over 5/6 months now and when i first started talking to her, i was in europe, and coincidentally, after a few weeks i got an offer from the university in her town, so i accepted offer and moved down to canada and told her so. I thought it would be a great opportunity to meet up with her (btw im 18 and shes 20 and turning 21 in March). But i found out she knew this other guy for over 2 years, who when he found out i was coming to town, he started sending her crush emails and came down to meet her for first time. He also came up with 1000000000 excuses to not meet up with me, but that was back in July and he came over for a week only. So far till today i havnt met her but we talked everyday. She doesnt hide anything about him from me, she tells me what he does and sends her....etc. I talk to that guy from time to time, but i dont know him well which is kinda good on my side. Ive talked to that girl for a while now that i kinda like her. So here are my questions:

1) Would it work out with me and her in age difference first of all?

2) In this situation, how can i get her to like me more than him(this happened at a point, she told me "Omg i liked you more than him for a while, wtf is wrong with me!")

3) I tried meeting up with her couple of times but i picked wrong times so i backed off, and ever since havnt tried again, but she did say sometime we should go grab a bite or something, so any advice here?

4) If someone was in my situation and likes someone older, and knows another guy that likes her, whats best to do and how to win the game?

THanks in advance

Like most people in 'oneitis' situations, the problem can be easily reconciled by having options. Make yourself social and attract the attention of other women. By having options with multiple females, you will become more attractive to the woman your are pursuing, and if that doesn't work out then you will have back-up plans.

Go out there and be social. Invite her if you want to, but remember that your frame dictates that you are in control of your life and she does not alter your state. If she wants to come along for the ride then great, if she doesn't then it is no big loss to you. There are many elements to game that you could use to 'out shine' your opponent, but coming off as the non-needy guy is probably the most powerful.

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when i was young and lived in Russia at that time, i dated the girl that was 16 and i was 12, it lasted a year. lol. but i guess at that age it's not much different, since you are 18 you can't go to any clubs with her, which kinda sucks.
But go for it, you are not loosing anything.

Yep.
By not trying. The guy is a complete pussy and is shit scared of the competition, ie. you, and made desperate attempts to get you out of the picture. Let that be her concern; she'll get mighty bored and mighty fast. Flirt with her as normal, have fun and don't mention him, hint towards him, or otherwise give her reasons to have him on her mind.
As above. Stop chasing after her so damn much. You're practically fighting over her right now and it's silly. Go along with her idea of meeting up but don't seem too excited about it. The other guy bitches about you non stop and girls hate that kind of insecurity, so don't acknowledge him and you'll be fine.
There are always other guys. Everywhere. Just do things as if they don't exist, don't talk about them around her and don't think about them.

thanks alot guys, and especially Solomon, i got the idea now thanks

There was this once i said megan fox was hot, and then she said out of the blue, apparently your into older women? and i said love has no age limit, then she said omg....are you? hehehehe

I have no idea what that really means, any ideas? where did that question she asked me arrise from when i said megan fox was hot :S

Those 2 are soooo true , Girls get tired/annoyed with guys who are always on top of them and trying to keep them away from other guys. If you just stay cool and flirt as normal shell eventually come to you just have to be confident.

thanks