I've been focusing so much on puaing i've really dropped my grades at school, i don't regret entering the pua world but... i need to focus on other aspects of my life. Also i feel that in order to be the best pua i can i need to be successful in all other aspects of my life.
If i carry on the way i am i will end up being kicked out of 6th form.

I would just like to know how does everyone else balance puaing with the rest of their lives?

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Why So Serious?

ALLWAYS and when i say allways i mean ALLWAYS!!!

Put your education before PUA i had the same propblem i used to be on here studying PUA skills untill 3 or 4 AM and waking up at 6 for college sooo tired i couldnt concentrate.

The best thing to do is allways put college work first. If you have college work get it over and done with and spend the rest of the time sarging. If you cant go out due to college work you could miss out on a few HBs but whats more important getting a good education or getting a kiss?

Education helps in PUA as if you can show that youd highly educated its a great way of showing DHV.

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Find good ways to integrate it into your college life. Allocate a certain amount of time to spend reading the forum or books, and treat yourself to more time if you finish your work ahead of time.
Also integrate sarging whenever you start a new class, go to a party or dance, or just go clubbing on the weekends.

Don't let it take all your time, it is better to be well rounded anyway. Work on a number of areas of your life at once such as maintaining your grades, physique, and game.

Simple... don't take it so fucking seriously.

Remember, it's called The Game. It's not supposed to be work.
School should always come first, always.
PUA is a hobby, a pass-time, not something you should be putting above school.
Cinnamon

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Pick one path and stick with it!

Really sit down and think about what you want in your life. What your goals are and what is the path to achieving them. Personally, I don't think college is for everyone. And I don't think stacking academic achievements is the end all be all path to success and happiness. I know plenty of people with PhD's who make far less than I do.

If school is the best way to achieve your goals, then concentrate on your schooling. If you can achieve your goals without school, but acknowledge that you do require more knowledge and experience to achieve your goal(s), find a way to gain that knowledge and those experiences. If you believe you can make the world a better place and achieve your goal(s) by becoming a mPUA, by all means, help yourself. You could be the next generation's Mystery or Styles.

Don't limit yourself to the expectation(s) of society or it's pressure on how success and happiness is achieved. The formula they offer you is often f'ed up and forces you to substitute personal fulfillment for social comfort.

No one has control over life but you! And no one else is going to do what's really in your best interests, but yourself!

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Look back to yesterday, remember all the things you'll regret? Come back to the now. Think about tomorrow, how many regrets do you think you're going to have?

thanks for the advice, does anyone else have some opinions?

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Why So Serious?

just think of how great a pua ull be when your kicked out of school, cant get a job and are living in a box in an alley.pretty awesome right?