Hi, I was thinking about the way I do touching and Kino in general once women are pretty comfortable with me(hugs, etc)...

I tend to make them giggle and giddily pull away when I touch them in a playful manner (Usually when joking around I touch them more intimately than they expect, but not to the point of groping or overbearing).

For example, when hugging a girl -

Some put their arms above hers.
Some put their arms right below hers..
Some put their hands mid back....

But me, I always put my hands on their lower back, not touching their ass, but their lower back.


So my question is - Is this the right thing to do?
Girls always seem to be rather surprised but giddy that I do this..

That is a much more sexual and sensual embrace than most hugs. You are pulling your pelvises and stomachs together which is a very invasive thing to do if you haven't established a strong enough connection yet. I would spend more time working your way up the kino ladder and gaining rapport before doing something like that because it may make her feel uncomfortable.

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