I was wondering if its ok and logical to tell a set or any Solo hb that im having a party or something alogn those lines even its not going to happen, to get a N-close?
i was pondering it on my way to class and iwas running situations through my head. so i was wondering if its fine to hell a hb "so im having this party this weekend, blah blah ill give you a call you should come by"
i mean is that straight out lie or can it be considered game?
i wonder this...
thanks for the replies in advance,
----Vibe

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How is the sky the limit,
If iv touched the stars.

It's a straight out lie unless you were actually planning the party but had to cancel or postpone it for some reason.

Why not use the fact that you want to get to know her better as your "excuse" to get the number? Quit seeing yourself as so low-value that you need any other reason other than YOU to get the girl.

actually i dont have a problem with it......the openers some of the puas use are lies.....for example....can i get your guys opinion on something real quick....waht you think about tatto's, my friends girlfriend is wanting him to get one.....

well this could be true but hell lie to get a conversatoin going isnt bad....to get a number close isnt to bad but it could back fire plus i wouldnt be using it everytime ur gonna wanna get practive on asking for it straight up......

but ever watch the pick-up artist....those guys use the having a party ill call you up to get your number. and well mystery hasnt complained....so i guess if you idle him that gives you the green light to use it on OCCASION

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How You Approach Is A Matter Of How You Feel "mPUA Savior"

You Live What You've Learned

thats exactly wat i was lookin for in A response
i also seen it used on the pick up artist and thats also why i asked.
so thanks!

---Vibe

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How is the sky the limit,
If iv touched the stars.

If you know the answer why ask the question? I would go with a line like "I have to go, but I would like to get to know you better so could I get your number..." You could stop there or fill it in with an activity you want to do with her.

this line


" its a good line but has flaws, wording is important.....

COULD is the main problem....ur asking can i please or is it alright if i get your number (not the kind of message you want to send)

i gotta get going
but let me get your number......(now fill in what you like)

i usually use the

i gotta get going (pause) but let me get your number and we'll hang out sometime.....


im only saying your using the COULD in that line to get the number can be changed for the better

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How You Approach Is A Matter Of How You Feel "mPUA Savior"

You Live What You've Learned

I hate the focus on number closing. It is so pointless.

I have been experimenting with day-two closing only. I set up a date for a few days later and we meet there again. There is no number exchange, just a date, time, and place. So far I'm about 50% on them showing up - that being 2 did and 2 did not.

I would just much rather not have to deal with "phone game" if I can avoid it. Refusing to settle for a number close has also made me significantly step up my in-field game.

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-That's my two cents...

U are misunderstanding my statement... In wat i said i meant that, that was the kinda response i needed, a straight foward one. Instead of "its a lie" theres no reasoning or acknowledgement behind that answer so that is what i meant by that. But thanks for trying to make me look like an asshole i enjoy it =) but i like what mPUA Savior says about the wording, i definatrely agree. I think its an subconcious thing more than anything when your number closing,in my opinion. When u ask your giving them an option... When u demand your showing your assertiveness and Ur alpha... well it makes sense in my mind.. feel free to be a critic.
thanks guys

---Vibe

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How is the sky the limit,
If iv touched the stars.