okay here is the problem.. i have been reading alot and i know that i would have no fear in a scenario where if i got shot down oh well i don't know anyone in the club/bar whatever i'll get over it... that isn't the case where i go to school all the hb's for the most part go to one bar and are in sorority and or know most of the people there... so i for the most part already know them so this doesn't leave much room for practice (although i am going to be in new orleans for the next week and plan on getting some good sarging in while i'm there to reduce some of my approach anxiety) so now that you guys know the issues 1. know most of the girls in the bar for awhile 2. if i fuck up their friends are going to hear about cause these girls love to share 3. i would rather not have some shit floating around about me if i do fuck up

what do i do?
and i will admit failure is one of my biggest fears that i'm trying to get over... been reading alot of inner game stuff trying to work on that..

do i run the same game even though i know them?
do i just say fuck it and let people say what they want?

i'll take whatever advice you guys can give and appreciate it

-absente

This is a difficult concept to explain but I'll give it a try. If you are running solid game, then at no point are you supplicating or giving your personal 'power' away to a girl. If you are doing the right things, then you are never leaving anything on the line or 'rolling the dice.' Hence there is no room for an embarrassing rejection. Remember that you are getting the girl to seduce you, and furthermore are never coming from a place of neediness.

Also remember that your happiness, your self fulfillment, has nothing to do with the responses that others give you. You should never be seeking approval or validation, nor should you care about what other people think of you. Just be fun and use 'game' to boost your overall attractiveness to all the females and let them come to you. Just be that cool, laid back guy who is interesting and doesn't give a shit. If you have an understanding of social dynamics, then there is no reason to throw up that Hail Mary where rejection could have possible ramifications.

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