after a very long 17 years im going to lose my virginity tomorrow...

what is some advice you would have liked to have known before you had sex the first time?

You won't be any good at it.

If she's had sex before, it will be obvious to her.

If she hasn't then she won't enjoy it at all. You'll have to go slow, and question why anyone would want to have sex.

In all honesty, sex for the first time sucks...

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you will be quick

I know it will be quick and you wont exactly know what to do unless you watch alot of porn when i lost mine i was quite drunk so i was sloppy anyway.

wear a condom. you dont wanna get her preggy or catch STD's

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Make sure ur both relaxed, if she's a virgin as well u might not be able to get it in... that's a normal problem if she's a virgin. Drinking a bit before can counter this. Also, when u put the condom on, don't stand up, go and get it, put it on and go back to the bed; you'll lose ur erection and chances are it won't go back up coz u'll be nervous. Instead keep the condom at reach from the bed and when u get it and open it make sure u keep the erection by either wanking urself while u do it or getting the girl to do it. Not being able to get it back up is frustrating, and if ur frustrated you've get no chance.
Other than that make sure u have plenty of good foreplay before u actually go for sex, that way she'll be ready for u and you'll get it in easier.

1. Wear a condom.
2. Knock one out about 2 hours before you think your gonna have sex.
3. Have some music/TV on in the back ground. (not blasting)
4. When it happening, dont forget to smile, and kiss her.
5. enjoy yourself.

The first time is not the best time, but hell, it beats playing halo 3. And its "not a big deal", i mean it is, to guys, but you never ever want the girl to find out how much it matters.

okay you guys got me convinced we ganna have to break out some weed before hand. I have plenty of time to have sex sober later. whew all thse things I never thought about before. keep the advice rollin I find it strangely comforting.

Chris2709 you made a good point, this isn't said often. Really have you'r condom near to you. And train to put it on right and quickly and try it in the dark too. And as Chris said wank it while you're preparing yourself especially if you want to use alcohol or weed.
Once a problem like that fucked up a grate night for me, and mean I was pissed ... Ohh and one more thing if something like that happens there is one good advice!

TALK TO HER (it may seem hard or stupid, but thats the only way you will get over the situation), say that you don't know whats happening but somehow your overexcited because she's so blaa blaa blaa blaaa... and that we have to wait for a while and do more foreplay so you can get ready again.
Sure it will be uncomfortable saying that but it will get the tension off and will give you another shot if something goes wrong.

Remember that you are only a regular human and that shit happens, she will understand that.

And good luck

Ohh... One more thing.

It's not true that you're going to come quick or that you will be bad in bed. The problem is that this idea is overtaking your mind because everyone said it will be this way.
We are born to have sex the knowllage is in you.
I lost mine with two good girlfriends of mine and I couldn't believe that thats actually happening I was a little drunk and everything went well, I wasn't a porn star but every time I wasn't sure what I'm doing I just asked them confidently in a sexy voice tone if they liked what I'm doing.
And you should talk to her too ... carefully not too much but thats the only way you can learn.

Remember it's all in your head .

Something else I thought of... if she's not a virgin, and u cum really soon, or even when she's tossing u off or whatever, it can be really embarrassing for guys. So if u come too soon and u sense an arkward moment coming of 'that was it?' just say something along the lines of 'fuck, you just turned me on so much I couldn't control myself', which shifts the embarrassment of u not being able to last to her feeling good that she's so sexy. Would probably make u seem more experienced if u say it confidently as well.

Ah, just realised, that post was probs too late lol it's general advice to anyone anyway