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PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 7:40 pm 
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Sorry if this is long...
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I work at an engineering firm. Every week I play 5-a-side football (or soccer) after work on one night with guys I've found over time since before starting this current job (summer), in a team I started up and generally take charge of. Back then I met a guy at work and convinced him to play for my team when I was short on players. After the game I saw him talking to a girl (we'll call L) and I got introduced and spoke a little bit. Turns out she also works at our company (it's quite big) and plays in a ladies team every week at the same football centre.

So I see L around every now and then at the football place, and sometimes at work. She works in another building where my friend also sits, so sometimes we have a bit of chit chat when I'm over there mainly to see my mate. I bought a camcorder about a month ago and have been telling people how I want to have someone film my team so we can watch how we played and analyse how we can do better. When I told L this, she found it funny and told me I was "taking it too seriously" and that I was "sad". When I asked her if she could do the filming she would dismiss the idea and generally mock, which is fine because I didn't expect her to do it, however my casual persistence made her say she'd consider doing one half of it.
However this last week, I found someone to film our match, and I saw L briefly walking past before the start and before she could say anything (probably to get out of filming it) I said look - I've got a camerawoman, pointing to the girlfriend of a teammate who said she'd do it (I don't think L knows her).
Today, I didn't think I'd be over in the other building, but I wanted to tell L that it got filmed and that it was on YouTube so she could see it. So I did it by email instead.
Her reply was like "You put it on YouTube? You loser! How much did you have to pay the poor girl?"
I replied saying how we actually won the match (my riposte to the 'loser' label), and that by being on YouTube we could attract sponsors, if not a rich Sheikh to buy the team off me and take us to the Premiership title (basically, far flung OTT stuff), and how I was gonna analyse all the footage and make technical notes and comments to give to all my players (I knew this would get the too serious reaction again). Plus I added that I didn't have to pay the girl to film us, the privilege was enough.
Interestingly, her reply was simply "Get a girlfriend!"
L is a cute little blonde, maybe not my ideal type, but not bad. My friend mentioned she had or did have a bf but it wasn't going well or it ended or something. One of the main reasons I'm on this forum is that I have an almost unhealthy amount of female friends/acquaintances. I decided I was gonna reply with something that might not get a reply, but I couldn't take too long over it, so I replied with
"If that's an offer, I'll have to weigh up my options, as well as your pros and cons".
I didn't get a reply. That was kinda in the 'over-analysing' vein she's known me to be. Was that too clever or just lame?
And what should I do tomorrow?
a) Go over to her building and ignore her while I talk to my friend and any other female colleagues around? Or
b) should I go over there and just plow her and never stop, even when I see her at the football place?

Running a football team must be good 'leader of men' DHV stuff, right?


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 7:55 pm 
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Well for one you failed every shit test she gave you. When she put you down about being to serious and calling you a loser you tryed to recover from Vailidating yourself. You DHV yourself. Which to her means she right. what you should have done instead is just Smile, ignore what she said and continue like you didnt even hear her say that. by trying to defend yourself when she said that just gave her the upper hand. you shouldn't have mention that you found another person to film it. If she care about it she would of brought it up. Proving to her that you can be a Jock isnt really DHVing. My advice just ignore her, Let her win your attention back. Talk to your friend, just smile at her and carry about your business. if she intrested in you she'll rekindle the Conversation with "what you cant talk to me anymore" then she just playing hard to get and busting your balls. Good DHV is when you get approval from your Popular colleagues and female colleagues. girls can tell when you Try to hard to impress them. Be the guy that she wants to impress.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 10:11 pm 
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Ok, so today around the end of my lunchtime I went over there and spoke to my friend for a few minutes, as well as the cute chinese girl that's near his desk. After that, I turned around to walk out. L's desk is in view from the aisle so I thought I should keep a smile on my face in case she sees me. I check across just in case and she sees me and has a grin on her face. I see her, and as tempting as it was to go over, I thought "Do what NonStopReaper told you" and I smiled a bit more as I kept on walking out of their office.

I do have the feeling this spell of not talking could go on for a while though...


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 10:49 am 
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good job, the object is to push and pull. Make it seems like you are unintrested in her. She probably knows you are intrested in her. Talk with the Chinese girl more. Show more attention to others girls in front of her.

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