A woman that I already built attraction with started ignoring me at work. I started DHVing like crazy to prize myself. Before she left, I confronted her about ignoring me and she said she was sorry and left.

A few minutes later, she texted me saying she was sorry again and hoped I didn't hate her for ignoring me. I pretended I didn't care. She pressed on.

I was reading about comfort-building and decided that's what I needed to do. I think it was a shit test. If it was, I failed. I told her she was awesome and don't worry about it. Then I asked her out. She said yes. We kept talking and I complimented her with a metaphor. She said thank you for that. I said I'll see you when we get together. No reply.

I'm positive I did the wrong thing. I baited, hooked, reeled, but I didn't release.

What do I say tonight to prize myself again? Thanks in advance!