Ok so theres this chick in my math class. We'll say HB 7 Ne way she sits behind me and we would talk before and after class for a just a min or two. One day she approached me and asked for on home work. She took my number and said she'd call me. We studied once for bout 2 hours b4 class one day. So a little while later where texting and its going all good and i ask what shes doin and would she like to grab some coffee. She didnt respond. In school she acts bout the same like it didnt happen. Im more reserved around her now tho. What happened?

who the fuck gave this guy negative rep??? im bout to fix that.

bro i dont know man i dont kno how u handled urself but coffee sometimes is more of a date... like umm sit down talkand coffee

its valid to do, i mean its one thing my father reccomended to me and i think he invented pua (no offense to my mom im like 200% shits straight) im talking back in the day.

like my dad is straight up real with girl shit. i have a friend like that. they would boggle ur minds with how they get girls. how direct and open they are. some people just respect that shit. im a mix of pua and my buddies style and what iv learned from the way my dad handles himself growing up

what the fuck am i talking about. i think im gunna give myself -2 rep like 20 other people did to me today

im stupid

dont listen to me


except the followin:

i just dont think your game is solid enough... maybe im wrong i dont kno if ur an average guy or not but if u are maybe its ur opener, attraction, comfort

u kno the steps... maybe its ur body language, tonality etc


i dont kno

why did i just talk about my dad??>?

Lol thanks bro. I'll just have to take a step back and reevaluate what i did i guess. Thanks for help with the rep points too. i saw i was negative and like wtf, i havent been an ass on here in anyway so that confused me but thanks for the help.

First thing i see is that she took YOUR number and said SHE'D call YOU. you should've been alpha and said "No, I'll call YOU." and then made her wait a few days. Then the entire time she would be wondering when you were gonna call.

i also need more information... did you wait outside for her to get to class to talk to her? did you smalltalk with her before and after class? what did you text about?

She sits behind me so we talked for a min before class started and we talked alitte after. Mainly school related stuff. Sometimes she will talk to me after class while im smokin a cig or somthing. When we texted it was election day, so i just used "did u vote" as an opener and went from there. I asked like what she was doin that nite and she said she didnt know. She then asked me what i was doin that nite. I took this as an IOI and then proceeded to ask her if she wanted to get some coffee with me later.(I figure coffee was safe because, come on, all chicks love starbucks) And she never responded. In school everything is more or less the same. We still small talk and stuff im just not quite as outgoin now cuz i dont see why i should be ya know. ALSO. i am not sure, but she MAY have a bf. I see her waiting up for some guy sometimes and when i've called her i heard him in the back ground. One time when she was standin with me after class and i asked what class she had next and she said she was waitin on someone. I asked who she said just a friend. So idk if its her man.