I'm talking to this girl and I want to say something like: You seem to have a lot of openess about you. I bet you really wear your heart on your sleeve.

Would it be wrong to say you wear your heart on your sleeve?

I'm thinking of it in the context of nlp. you're tell her things about herself that brings her closer to wanting to have sex with you. Like "O, I bet you love the feeling of giving to someone"

Or better yet, would it be better to say: "You seem to have a real openess about you, I bet you really love giving yourself to others."

I feel a little evil saying that lol. I wonder if she'll see what I'm trying to do in that sentance because "giving youself to others" it is kind of blanctant.

I know it's true though because she said: "i lived there [Africa] for a month the past 2 summers. my heart is in africa. helping people is my greatest joy. besides singing."


I think the heart on the sleeve thing will either be balsy and really good or insulting and hurtfull.

thanks in advance.

I like that lol. Think about it like this, if she calls you out on saying ""I wonder if she'll see what I'm trying to do in that sentance because "giving youself to others" it is kind of blanctant. "" Then just call her out for thinking like that lol. This also shows a less C/F side and more genuine side which is sometimes more attractive to some girls.

Good luck brah

sounds good to me as long as u dont continuously say things like that

I think saying that she wears her heart on her sleeve is fine as long as you say what that means to you. If you just tell her that but don't follow it up with anything, then it could mean just about anything.

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