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well gambler of course has his book.
one pointer i have is to always be yourself. never sell out to ideas other people have. always be a critic. always INCORPORATE pua into your style...
dont change too fast. i tried to, it dont work
its just like learning to fight (not just a martial art) but to actually effectively fight. u need to take it slow. master the basic principals then slowly add and narrow down the style and techniques that work best for you. a guy i know who has done karate for 10 years and owns his own karate place now says he uses 10 moves 90% of the time. the rest of what he knows is of course in his arsonal but u kno...
take it slow if you want to be natural. be yourself. know your goals interests and dont make pua your #1 priority unless u REALLY REALLY feel thats whats best for you.
I most definitely need to work on that. I've basically recognized that I "go with the flow" way too easy, as a misguided way of fitting in and being accepted. I was an outcast in high school, and thought that by doing what everyone else did was the way to be accepted. This of course has lead me to sell out to others ideas and not dare to criticize.
So what is Gamblers book called?