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| dmacfour | PostPosted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 8:43 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Oct 05, 2008 8:55 pm Posts: 80 | | Alright here is whats going on:
There is a very beautiful girl in my anatomy class and lab. I'd say she is borderline HB10 (based on looks alone). In lecture I sit with some friends, she sits across the room (of about 250 students). Anyway, I catch her looking at me every so often, at least once or twice a class period. I've made eye contact once or twice, but she looks away quickly. I take these things as a possible IOI.
So in lab each week, she sits next to me or near me, even though she has plenty of seats to choose from if she wanted to. Taking it as a good opportunity, I have tried to open her and start a conversation on a few occasions. I'll ask her a question or make a comment. All I get back are short responses that don't have anything I can continue a conversation with. So than I'm thinking to myself that either she isn't into me, or that she is really shy.
What makes me think she is shy is that I've noticed she acts the same way when talking to other people, even people she knows in the class. Also how she responds to my attempts to start a convo is the same way I did back when I war really shy. Short closed-end responses in a quiet tone of voice. Otherwise she is just silent.
Guys, how do I get this girl to open up?
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| Eminem | PostPosted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 8:48 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Thu Nov 13, 2008 5:17 pm Posts: 221 | | bro just be sure that she isnt near u cuz ur safe...
if shes a 10 then trust me guys hit on her
shes not a virgin to being hit on
be careful not to just be her friend
for all u kno she gets hit on so much at the clubs her 7-8 wanna be friends take her to every weekend that she hides thru the week trying to get a breather from her own hottness
(i kno a girl liek this lol)
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| dmacfour | PostPosted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 9:02 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Oct 05, 2008 8:55 pm Posts: 80 | | But I can't get friend zoned if I can't even get a convo started. There aren't any clubs around for her to go to, so the most she would do is go to a house party. The thing is, she isn't even open enough to get to the point where I could get her name.
I just need some advice on how to deal with shy girls.
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| Eminem | PostPosted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 9:05 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Thu Nov 13, 2008 5:17 pm Posts: 221 | | get her to come out of her shell. i dont reccomend doing risky shit but the other day i slapped a shy girl who lieks me on the ass with my raquet and she liked it.
just make sure she knows ur not just a friend
but then say w/e u want nothing too boring or acedemic. u can start with something totally on topic focused and unrandom like the class but like head the convo in a fun direction and encourage her to open up. dont talk too much let her talk too
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| NonStopReaper | PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 12:31 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon Dec 04, 2006 2:49 am Posts: 625 Location: Tokyo, Japan (grew up in Socal) | | well if she isnt talkative and you wanna communicate. Go old fashion style, Write her a note like "hey there" or "why so quite?" and draw a smilely face or something and watch her reaction. If she smiles or giggles then its on. She could be shy when she talk but when you write most people can convey themselve better while writing. Game her Ninja style! _________________ "Live life to the fullest, never look back, remember No regrets" J.f
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