I've done some searches and views in the comfort and attraction forum and it seems I can only run kino escalation and thats it?! What if I don't wanna make gfs and only female friends? How should I go about building comfort?

Common sense... you make friends wih guys through bonding, right? You shoot the shit and find common ground. You might do similar activities, drink the same stuff, play the same video games, talk about girls... likewise, you make friends with girls by bonding. You just talk about girly stuff instead, like fashion and celeb gossip. Go shopping with them, shit like that. Let your feminine side out a little. You don't wanna go overboard with it, mind. Still be yourself and talk about guy stuff aswell so there's a nice balance.

female friends? what is it good for?


ps: just act how you are when you're making friends.. or uninstered... I dont think there's any secret

You're kidding, right? I go out with girls all the time because they act as pivots and social proof. When you're out at the weekend it's great to be with girls already... makes things easier; others you approach are far more open to your company cos you don't look like some random dude out picking up girls. Well, the way I do things that stigma is hard to avoid, but it sure as hell gives them an idea of how much of a shit I actually give. Not only that, but having girl friends means I get to follow them around the places they shop and approach other girls who are shopping there. Walking around the city with a group of guys, you can't really go into any of those stores without looking a little weird.